{"id":9753,"date":"2022-08-15T19:58:47","date_gmt":"2022-08-15T19:58:47","guid":{"rendered":"http:\/\/revistakuvendi.org\/?p=9753"},"modified":"2022-08-15T19:58:47","modified_gmt":"2022-08-15T19:58:47","slug":"per-moskuptimin-e-keqkuptimeve","status":"publish","type":"post","link":"https:\/\/revistakuvendi.org\/?p=9753","title":{"rendered":"PER MOSKUPTIMIN E KEQKUPTIMEVE!"},"content":{"rendered":"\n
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Pjet\u00ebr Jaku<\/p>\n\n\n\n

Q\u00eb t\u00eb mos keqkuptohemi\nduhet t\u00eb shprehemi qart\u00eb! Kjo nuk \u00ebsht\u00eb nj\u00eb aksiom\u00eb e panjohur, por jo rrall\u00eb\nndodh t\u00eb keqkuptohemi.<\/p>\n\n\n\n

Keqkuptimet vijn\u00eb\nnga komunikimi i p\u00ebrditsh\u00ebm dhe n\u00eb raste t\u00eb rralla. N\u00eb shum\u00eb raste, keqkuptimet\nndodhin nga njer\u00ebz me prirje paragjykuese, n\u00eb disa raste kan\u00eb t\u00eb b\u00ebjn\u00eb me nj\u00eb s\u00ebmundje\npsikologjike kund\u00ebrshtuese me bashk\u00ebbiseduesin, mos pranimi i mendimit t\u00eb\ntjetrit, p\u00ebr ti dh\u00ebn\u00eb vetes vlerat, q\u00eb t\u00eb tjer\u00ebt nuk i dallojn\u00eb te ai, pra nj\u00eb\nfar\u00eb fasade q\u00eb i vesh njohurive t\u00eb tij, njeriu q\u00eb nuk gabon kurr\u00eb! Keqkuptimi ka\nt\u00eb b\u00ebj\u00eb edhe me m\u00ebnyr\u00ebn e interpretimit. N\u00eb marr\u00ebveshje me nj\u00ebri \u2013 tjetrin , n\u00eb\nbiseda t\u00eb r\u00ebndomta, njeriu rrall\u00eb matet me detaje, para se t\u00eb shprehet, kur  nuk ka  \u00e7\u2019i duhet gjuha diplomatike e n\u00ebnkuptimeve t\u00eb\nmundshme t\u00eb tekstit, ndaj i kalon duke mos u ndalur holl\u00ebsisht tek teksti. Po te\nruheshim aq shum\u00eb se mos gabojm\u00eb, nuk do e kishimi komunikimin q\u00eb kemi sot.<\/p>\n\n\n\n

Edhe n\u00eb gjuh\u00ebn\ne t\u00eb komunikuarit me  gjeste e sy, me\ngjuhen trupore \u201c bodylanguage\u201d, nuk ka pas\u00eb keqkuptime, sa ka n\u00eb koh\u00ebn ton\u00eb moderne,\nku spjegimet jan\u00eb qindra her\u00eb m\u00eb t\u00eb mund\u00ebshme.<\/p>\n\n\n\n

A kan\u00eb t\u00eb b\u00ebjn\u00eb\ngjinia dhe historit\u00eb p\u00ebrsonale te keqkuptimet? N\u00eb koh\u00ebn e sotme, gjinit\u00eb pak po\ndallojn\u00eb, q\u00eb kur stilisti Paul Poiret futi moden e pantollonave tek femrat\n(1911), duke heq fustanin e gjat\u00eb me pala. N\u00eb vitet e sotme femrat vishen gati\nsi burrat, sidomos zyrtaret. Pra, gjinia p\u00ebrjashtohet, nd\u00ebrsa njohjet q\u00ebndrojn\u00eb.\nDy t\u00eb njohur, t\u00eb cil\u00ebt kan\u00eb komunikuar shpesh me nj\u00ebri-tjetrin, nuk kan\u00eb pse\nkeqkuptohen, edhe n\u00ebse ndonj\u00ebrit i rreshqet dora ose gjuha para mendimit. Ata njihen\naq sa p\u00ebr t\u00eb mos u keqkuptuar!<\/p>\n\n\n\n

Llojet e keqkuptimeve\n( pendulum ) vijn\u00eb q\u00eb n\u00eb kohet kur ka filluar shoq\u00ebria njer\u00ebzore. Q\u00eb n\u00eb koh\u00eb t\u00eb\nlashta dhe n\u00eb ato t\u00eb m\u00ebvonshme, homerike, keqkuptimet kan\u00eb ndodhur, m\u00ebs\u00ebshum\u00ebti\nnga komplekset e njeriut, q\u00eb \u00ebsht\u00eb vatra kryesore e k\u00ebtij fenomeni, si dhe nga\ndeshira p\u00ebr t\u00eb nd\u00ebrtuar keqkuptime, t\u00eb leverdis\u00ebshme, n\u00eb raste luftrash e\nkonflikte nacionale, q\u00eb u duhej ve\u00e7 nj\u00eb shk\u00ebndij p\u00ebr t\u00eb plasur.<\/p>\n\n\n\n

Populli ka\nnj\u00eb th\u00ebnie brilante p\u00ebr k\u00ebt\u00eb fenomen: \u201c Gjuha t\u00eb mbyt, argumenti t\u00eb shp\u00ebton!\u201d<\/p>\n\n\n\n

Shembuj t\u00eb\ntill\u00eb ka plot n\u00eb jet\u00ebn e p\u00ebrdit\u00ebshme, n\u00eb t\u00eb gjitha sferat e saj. Kekuptimet e\npaparamenduara, klasifikohen si keqkuptime t\u00eb thjeshta, q\u00eb n\u00eb anglisht thuhen\u201d\na simple misunderstanding.\u201d<\/p>\n\n\n\n

N\u00eb t\u00eb gjitha\nrastet, presupozohet se bashk\u00ebbiseduesi i njeh tiparet dhe karakterin e an\u00ebs\ntjet\u00ebr!<\/p>\n\n\n\n

15 gusht 2022<\/em><\/p>\n","protected":false},"excerpt":{"rendered":"

Pjet\u00ebr Jaku Q\u00eb t\u00eb mos keqkuptohemi duhet t\u00eb shprehemi qart\u00eb! Kjo nuk \u00ebsht\u00eb nj\u00eb aksiom\u00eb e panjohur, por jo rrall\u00eb ndodh t\u00eb keqkuptohemi. Keqkuptimet vijn\u00eb nga komunikimi i p\u00ebrditsh\u00ebm dhe n\u00eb raste t\u00eb rralla. N\u00eb shum\u00eb raste, keqkuptimet ndodhin nga njer\u00ebz me prirje paragjykuese, n\u00eb disa raste kan\u00eb t\u00eb b\u00ebjn\u00eb me nj\u00eb s\u00ebmundje psikologjike kund\u00ebrshtuese…<\/p>\n","protected":false},"author":1,"featured_media":9754,"comment_status":"open","ping_status":"open","sticky":false,"template":"","format":"standard","meta":{"footnotes":""},"categories":[11],"tags":[],"class_list":["post-9753","post","type-post","status-publish","format-standard","has-post-thumbnail","hentry","category-publicistike"],"_links":{"self":[{"href":"https:\/\/revistakuvendi.org\/index.php?rest_route=\/wp\/v2\/posts\/9753","targetHints":{"allow":["GET"]}}],"collection":[{"href":"https:\/\/revistakuvendi.org\/index.php?rest_route=\/wp\/v2\/posts"}],"about":[{"href":"https:\/\/revistakuvendi.org\/index.php?rest_route=\/wp\/v2\/types\/post"}],"author":[{"embeddable":true,"href":"https:\/\/revistakuvendi.org\/index.php?rest_route=\/wp\/v2\/users\/1"}],"replies":[{"embeddable":true,"href":"https:\/\/revistakuvendi.org\/index.php?rest_route=%2Fwp%2Fv2%2Fcomments&post=9753"}],"version-history":[{"count":1,"href":"https:\/\/revistakuvendi.org\/index.php?rest_route=\/wp\/v2\/posts\/9753\/revisions"}],"predecessor-version":[{"id":9755,"href":"https:\/\/revistakuvendi.org\/index.php?rest_route=\/wp\/v2\/posts\/9753\/revisions\/9755"}],"wp:featuredmedia":[{"embeddable":true,"href":"https:\/\/revistakuvendi.org\/index.php?rest_route=\/wp\/v2\/media\/9754"}],"wp:attachment":[{"href":"https:\/\/revistakuvendi.org\/index.php?rest_route=%2Fwp%2Fv2%2Fmedia&parent=9753"}],"wp:term":[{"taxonomy":"category","embeddable":true,"href":"https:\/\/revistakuvendi.org\/index.php?rest_route=%2Fwp%2Fv2%2Fcategories&post=9753"},{"taxonomy":"post_tag","embeddable":true,"href":"https:\/\/revistakuvendi.org\/index.php?rest_route=%2Fwp%2Fv2%2Ftags&post=9753"}],"curies":[{"name":"wp","href":"https:\/\/api.w.org\/{rel}","templated":true}]}}