{"id":7799,"date":"2019-07-19T14:55:49","date_gmt":"2019-07-19T14:55:49","guid":{"rendered":"http:\/\/revistakuvendi.org\/?p=7799"},"modified":"2019-07-19T14:55:49","modified_gmt":"2019-07-19T14:55:49","slug":"cdo-njeri-e-ndjen-vehten-nje-person-me-rendesi-kur-i-duhet-te-marre-vendime","status":"publish","type":"post","link":"https:\/\/revistakuvendi.org\/?p=7799","title":{"rendered":"\u00c7do njeri e ndjen vehten nj\u00eb person me r\u00ebnd\u00ebsi, kur i duhet t\u00eb marr\u00eb vendime!"},"content":{"rendered":"<p><a href=\"http:\/\/revistakuvendi.org\/wp-content\/uploads\/2019\/07\/Beneta-koopertine.jpg\"><img loading=\"lazy\" decoding=\"async\" class=\"alignleft size-full wp-image-7800\" src=\"http:\/\/revistakuvendi.org\/wp-content\/uploads\/2019\/07\/Beneta-koopertine.jpg\" alt=\"\" width=\"160\" height=\"160\" srcset=\"https:\/\/revistakuvendi.org\/wp-content\/uploads\/2019\/07\/Beneta-koopertine.jpg 160w, https:\/\/revistakuvendi.org\/wp-content\/uploads\/2019\/07\/Beneta-koopertine-150x150.jpg 150w, https:\/\/revistakuvendi.org\/wp-content\/uploads\/2019\/07\/Beneta-koopertine-50x50.jpg 50w\" sizes=\"auto, (max-width: 160px) 100vw, 160px\" \/><\/a>Bised\u00eb me aktivisten e njohur <strong>BENETA SHENA <\/strong><\/p>\n<p>Benta Shena, nj\u00eb nga pjes\u00ebmarr\u00ebset e para n\u00eb Levizjen Demokratike t\u00eb Shqip\u00ebris\u00eb postkomuniste, \u00ebsht\u00eb nj\u00eb nd\u00ebr femrat e rralla dhe t\u00eb pakta, q\u00eb p\u00ebr asnj\u00eb moment nuk u nda nga demostrimi i idealeve demokratike t\u00eb saj.<!--more--><\/p>\n<p>Nuk e b\u00ebri k\u00ebt\u00eb akt sa patriotik aq dhe qytetar p\u00ebr t\u00eb terhequr v\u00ebmendjen e askujt, se p\u00ebr k\u00ebt\u00eb mund t\u00eb gjente mund\u00ebsi t\u00eb tjera, por t\u00eb njderit e liris\u00eb s\u00eb munguar e shtyri vazhdimisht t\u00eb demostronte, kund\u00ebr cdo padrejt\u00ebsie dhe autoritarizmi q\u00eb q\u00eb e pengonte n\u00eb pun\u00ebn e saj.<\/p>\n<p>Njezet e n\u00ebnd\u00eb vite pjes\u00ebmarr\u00ebse n\u00eb t\u00eb gjitha demostratat antikomuniste !<\/p>\n<p>Nj\u00eb num\u00ebr i madh vitesh duke u p\u00ebrballur me nj\u00eb lloj p\u00ebrsekutimi edhe n\u00eb koh\u00ebn demokratike, pasi i duhej t\u00eb punonte p\u00ebr t\u00eb jetuar.<\/p>\n<p>\u201cPo ku t\u00eb l\u00ebn\u00eb k\u00ebta t\u00eb kuqt\u00eb, &#8211; thot\u00eb Beneta disi krenare. T\u00eb gjurmojn\u00eb ku t\u00eb jesh\u00eb, por un\u00eb as t\u00eb par\u00ebt e mi s\u2019jan\u00eb n\u00ebp\u00ebrkembur kurr\u00eb. Vitin q\u00eb vjen, &#8211; p\u00ebrfundon si me shaka, &#8211; do festoj 30 vjetorin e pjes\u00ebmarrjes n\u00eb demostrata.\u201d<\/p>\n<p><strong>\u00a0<\/strong><strong>At\u00ebhere Beneta, s\u00eb pari, prej nga vjen emri juaj disi i ve\u00e7ant\u00eb, pak biografi t\u00eb lutem p\u00ebr lexuesit, q\u00eb u kan\u00eb par\u00eb shpesh edhe n\u00eb faqet e shtypit ton\u00eb demokratik? <\/strong><\/p>\n<p><strong>\u00a0<\/strong>Kam lindur n\u00eb qytetin e Kor\u00e7\u00ebs m\u00eb 5 Prill 1970. Qyteti at\u00eb dit\u00eb zbardhte nga d\u00ebbora. Emrin e kam nga kumbari im, burri i tezes time, doktori i p\u00ebrkushtuar i banor\u00ebve t\u00eb k\u00ebtij qyteti z.Mitro Tasho.<\/p>\n<p><strong>\u00a0<\/strong><strong>Beneta<\/strong> \u00ebsht\u00eb shkurtim i \u201c<em>Benedetta<\/em>\u201d (<strong>e bekuar<\/strong>). Kuptohet emri <em>Benedetta<\/em> nuk mund t\u00eb rregjistrohesh n\u00eb rregjistrin e gjendjes civile, pasi konsiderohesh em\u00ebr \u201c<strong>i ndaluar<\/strong>\u201d p\u00ebr Shqip\u00ebrin\u00eb komuniste t\u00eb asaj kohe, k\u00ebshtu q\u00eb doktor Tasho \u201cu kujdes\u201d q\u00eb emri t\u00eb merrte trajt\u00eb t\u00eb pranueshme p\u00ebr n\u00ebnpun\u00ebsit e zyr\u00ebs s\u00eb rregjistrimit n\u00eb at\u00eb qytet.<\/p>\n<p><a href=\"http:\/\/revistakuvendi.org\/wp-content\/uploads\/2019\/07\/Beneta-prindrit.jpg\"><img loading=\"lazy\" decoding=\"async\" class=\"alignleft size-medium wp-image-7801\" src=\"http:\/\/revistakuvendi.org\/wp-content\/uploads\/2019\/07\/Beneta-prindrit-223x300.jpg\" alt=\"\" width=\"223\" height=\"300\" srcset=\"https:\/\/revistakuvendi.org\/wp-content\/uploads\/2019\/07\/Beneta-prindrit-223x300.jpg 223w, https:\/\/revistakuvendi.org\/wp-content\/uploads\/2019\/07\/Beneta-prindrit.jpg 333w\" sizes=\"auto, (max-width: 223px) 100vw, 223px\" \/><\/a>Kam lindur n\u00eb Kor\u00e7\u00eb, f\u00ebmija i par\u00eb i prind\u00ebrve t\u00eb mi, por f\u00ebmij\u00ebrin\u00eb dhe adoleshenc\u00ebn e kam jetuar n\u00eb qytetin e Librazhdit, qytet ku punonin dhe prind\u00ebrit e mi, babai <strong>Rexhep Lika<\/strong>, ushatrak karriere dhe n\u00ebna <strong>Dhurata Halili<\/strong> (Lika) n\u00ebnpun\u00ebse.<\/p>\n<p>Pak biografi t\u00eb t\u00eb par\u00ebve t\u00eb mi q\u00eb kan\u00eb ndikuar jo pak, n\u00eb formimin tim edukativ, shoq\u00ebror dhe arsimor.<\/p>\n<p>[Gjyshi im nga n\u00ebna, <strong>Arif Halili<\/strong>, ka lindur n\u00eb Selanik n\u00eb vitin 1914 dhe ka ardhur n\u00eb Shqip\u00ebri n\u00eb vitin 1923 n\u00eb mosh\u00ebn 9 vje\u00e7are, duke u vendosur n\u00eb qytetin e Elbasanit dhe \u00ebsht\u00eb rritur n\u00eb familjen e beut t\u00eb k\u00ebtij qyteti Haxhi Kulla. Ka ndjekur e p\u00ebrfunduar studimet n\u00eb normalen e Elbasanit deri n\u00eb vitin 1940 gjat\u00eb t\u00eb cil\u00ebs \u00ebsht\u00eb njohur me gjyshen time <strong>Xhevrije Bici<\/strong> (Halili), nx\u00ebn\u00ebse n\u00eb k\u00ebt\u00eb shkolle t\u00eb njohur n\u00eb at\u00eb koh\u00eb n\u00eb Shqip\u00ebri. Pas p\u00ebrfundimit t\u00eb Normales t\u00eb dy u vendos\u00ebn n\u00eb qytetin e Librazhdit dhe hap\u00ebn nj\u00eb dyqan t\u00eb vog\u00ebl sh\u00ebrbimesh p\u00ebr komunitetin e vog\u00ebl t\u00eb atij qyteti. Por menj\u00ebher\u00eb pas ardhjes n\u00eb pushtet t\u00eb rregjimit komunist n\u00eb vitin 1944 gjithshka ju sekuestrua.]<\/p>\n<p><a href=\"http:\/\/revistakuvendi.org\/wp-content\/uploads\/2019\/07\/beneta-gjyshrit.jpg\"><img loading=\"lazy\" decoding=\"async\" class=\"alignleft size-medium wp-image-7802\" src=\"http:\/\/revistakuvendi.org\/wp-content\/uploads\/2019\/07\/beneta-gjyshrit-300x225.jpg\" alt=\"\" width=\"300\" height=\"225\" srcset=\"https:\/\/revistakuvendi.org\/wp-content\/uploads\/2019\/07\/beneta-gjyshrit-300x225.jpg 300w, https:\/\/revistakuvendi.org\/wp-content\/uploads\/2019\/07\/beneta-gjyshrit.jpg 448w\" sizes=\"auto, (max-width: 300px) 100vw, 300px\" \/><\/a>[Gjyshi im nga babai <strong>Sadik Lika<\/strong>, ka lindur n\u00eb fshatin Gjon t\u00eb Martaneshit n\u00eb vitin 1905, dhe ka vdekur n\u00eb vitin 1975. Babai im <strong>Rexhep Lika<\/strong>, djali i madh i Sadikut ka lindur n\u00eb vitin 1937 pas shkoll\u00ebs fillore ndoqi arsimin e mes\u00ebm n\u00eb Elbasan. N\u00eb vitin 1966 ai \u00ebsht\u00eb emeruar n\u00eb qytetin e Librazhdit si oficer nd\u00ebrlidhje ku dhe \u00ebsht\u00eb njohur me n\u00ebn\u00ebn time <strong>Dhurata Halili<\/strong> (Lika), vajz\u00ebn e trete t\u00eb gjyshit Arif ]<\/p>\n<p>Kam marr\u00eb duksh\u00ebm but\u00ebsin\u00eb e nj\u00eb n\u00ebne prej gjyshes time t\u00eb ndjer\u00ebn Xhevrije, vendosm\u00ebrin\u00eb dhe besimin n\u00eb t\u00eb drejt\u00ebn prej babait tim Rexhep Lika, durimin p\u00ebr gjithshka n\u00eb jet\u00eb prej n\u00ebn\u00ebs time Dhurata dhe edukimin e formimin intelektual t\u00eb gjyshit Arif.<\/p>\n<p>Jam pak nga t\u00eb gjith\u00eb q\u00eb ndikuan n\u00eb hapat e para t\u00eb jet\u00ebs sime dhe formuan karakterin e Benet\u00ebs q\u00eb jam sot dhe sigurisht si f\u00ebmija i par\u00eb \u201cpak e p\u00ebrk\u00ebdhelur\u201d dhe \u00e7apk\u00ebne.<\/p>\n<p>P\u00ebr k\u00ebt\u00eb t\u00eb fundit kujtoj me nostalgji \u00e7aste q\u00eb sot m\u00eb b\u00ebjn\u00eb akoma t\u00eb qesh.<\/p>\n<p>Kur vdiq diktatori Enver Hoxha n\u00eb 1985, pak prej adoleshenc\u00ebs s\u00eb mosh\u00ebs dhe pak prej t\u00eb q\u00ebnurit \u00e7apk\u00ebne kam b\u00ebr\u00eb t\u00eb qesh\u00eb klas\u00ebn p\u00ebr disa minuta.<\/p>\n<p>N\u00eb fillim t\u00eb vitit 1989 jam njohur me bashkshortin tim Lulzim Shena, banues n\u00eb Tiran\u00eb ai nj\u00eb student i shk\u00eblqyer n\u00eb Fakultetin e Inxhinieris\u00eb s\u00eb Nd\u00ebrtimit q\u00eb padyshim reflektoi te un\u00eb bot\u00ebn e tij si dhe kuptimin tim mbi realitetin e shoq\u00ebris\u00eb s\u00eb asaj kohe.<\/p>\n<p>Me bashkshortin tim kam dy f\u00ebmij\u00eb, nj\u00eb vajz\u00eb dhe nj\u00eb djal\u00eb, t\u00eb dy ndjekin arsimin e lart\u00eb n\u00eb Universitetin e Tiran\u00ebs, vajza p\u00ebr Inxhinieri Mjedisi dhe djali p\u00ebr Gazetari.<\/p>\n<p><strong>Rinia dhe shkollimi, dy paralelizma te gjith\u00ebkujt, si ecen n\u00eb jet\u00ebn tuaj? <\/strong><\/p>\n<p>Kam ndjekur studimet e shkolles 8 vje\u00e7are 1976-1984 dhe me pas arsimin e mesem 1984-1988 ne qytetin e Librazhdit. Me pas kam ndjekur ne Tirane ne vitet 1989-1990, kursin 2 vje\u00e7ar te teknologjise ushqimore si <strong>Laborante Pijesh<\/strong> dhe n\u00eb vitin 2008 \u2013 2012 studimet e larta p\u00ebr <strong>Psikologji Shkollore<\/strong> po n\u00eb Tirane.<\/p>\n<p><a href=\"http:\/\/revistakuvendi.org\/wp-content\/uploads\/2019\/07\/beneta-me-gjyshin.jpg\"><img loading=\"lazy\" decoding=\"async\" class=\"alignleft size-medium wp-image-7803\" src=\"http:\/\/revistakuvendi.org\/wp-content\/uploads\/2019\/07\/beneta-me-gjyshin-219x300.jpg\" alt=\"\" width=\"219\" height=\"300\" srcset=\"https:\/\/revistakuvendi.org\/wp-content\/uploads\/2019\/07\/beneta-me-gjyshin-219x300.jpg 219w, https:\/\/revistakuvendi.org\/wp-content\/uploads\/2019\/07\/beneta-me-gjyshin.jpg 286w\" sizes=\"auto, (max-width: 219px) 100vw, 219px\" \/><\/a><a href=\"http:\/\/revistakuvendi.org\/wp-content\/uploads\/2019\/07\/Beneta-sport.jpg\"><img loading=\"lazy\" decoding=\"async\" class=\"alignleft size-full wp-image-7804\" src=\"http:\/\/revistakuvendi.org\/wp-content\/uploads\/2019\/07\/Beneta-sport.jpg\" alt=\"\" width=\"285\" height=\"294\" \/><\/a>Rinia ime ka q\u00ebn\u00eb e mbushur me aktivitete t\u00eb ndryshme artistike dhe sportive. Formimi kulturor, rrjedhoje e ambjentit familjar dhe shoq\u00ebror q\u00eb m\u00eb rrethonte, mund\u00ebsit\u00eb q\u00eb mu dhan\u00eb n\u00eb jet\u00eb, fal\u00eb dhe pasionit tim p\u00ebr sportin, let\u00ebrsin\u00eb, muzik\u00ebn dhe artin nuk m\u00eb linin kohe bosh.<\/p>\n<p>Gjate viteve te shkolles se mesme jam aktivizuar dhe si volejbolliste e ekipit te Sopotit.<\/p>\n<p>Paralel me shkoll\u00ebn ndiqja dhe aktivizohesha n\u00eb Pallatin e Kultur\u00ebs s\u00eb qytetit n\u00eb shfaqjet artistike q\u00eb organizoheshin si recituese, k\u00ebng\u00ebtare apo prezantuese. Muzika m\u00eb ka p\u00eblqyer gjithmon\u00eb dhe vazhdon t\u00eb m\u00eb ndjek\u00eb dhe sot po ai pasion.<\/p>\n<p><strong>Mbresat tuaja nga ajo mosh\u00eb, shoq\u00ebria dhe miq\u00ebsia? <\/strong><\/p>\n<p>Mbresat, kujtimet p\u00ebr ato vite jan\u00eb t\u00eb shumta dhe t\u00eb mrekullueshme. Shoq\u00ebri e \u00e7ilt\u00ebr, miq\u00ebsi t\u00eb forta q\u00eb vazhdojn\u00eb dhe sot fal\u00eb mund\u00ebsive q\u00eb sot paraqiten prej l\u00ebvizjes pa viza apo teknologjis\u00eb dhe rrjeteve sociale.<\/p>\n<p>Miq dhe mikesha q\u00eb sot, ashtu si dhe un\u00eb kan\u00eb krijuar familjet dhe jetojn\u00eb e punojne k\u00ebtu apo kudo n\u00eb bot\u00eb, me profesione apo aktivitete t\u00eb ndryshme e q\u00eb kur na jepet mund\u00ebsia t\u00eb takohemi rast\u00ebsisht apo takime t\u00eb programuara, kujtojm\u00eb me mall \u00e7do \u00e7ast t\u00eb atyre dit\u00ebve.<\/p>\n<p><a href=\"http:\/\/revistakuvendi.org\/wp-content\/uploads\/2019\/07\/Beneta-art.jpg\"><img loading=\"lazy\" decoding=\"async\" class=\"alignleft size-medium wp-image-7805\" src=\"http:\/\/revistakuvendi.org\/wp-content\/uploads\/2019\/07\/Beneta-art-300x282.jpg\" alt=\"\" width=\"300\" height=\"282\" srcset=\"https:\/\/revistakuvendi.org\/wp-content\/uploads\/2019\/07\/Beneta-art-300x282.jpg 300w, https:\/\/revistakuvendi.org\/wp-content\/uploads\/2019\/07\/Beneta-art.jpg 309w\" sizes=\"auto, (max-width: 300px) 100vw, 300px\" \/><\/a>Gjithmone kur kthehem pas ne kohe dhe hedh v\u00ebshtrimin n\u00eb ato vite, kuptoj q\u00eb n\u00eb thelb ishim t\u00eb gjith\u00eb nj\u00ebsoj, t\u00eb rinj pafajsh\u00ebm, t\u00eb rinj q\u00eb \u00ebnd\u00ebrronim fshehurazi sepse kish gjithmone nje limit dhe p\u00ebr \u00ebnd\u00ebrrat, q\u00eb arg\u00ebtoheshim t\u00eb kontrolluar sepse s\u2019duhesh kaluar caku qe te etiketonte \u201cborgjez\u201d, t\u00eb rinj\u00eb q\u00eb jetonin br\u00ebnda nj\u00eb \u201cburgu t\u00eb madh\u201d t\u00eb mbushur me burgje t\u00eb vogla politike.<\/p>\n<p>Kujtoj \u00e7aste t\u00eb bukura br\u00ebnda atyre mund\u00ebsive q\u00eb koha sistemi I at\u00ebhersh\u00ebm na mund\u00ebsonte.<\/p>\n<p>Kujtoj si m\u00eb t\u00eb r\u00ebnd\u00ebsish\u00ebm shfaqjen e organizuar n\u00eb vitin 1989 p\u00ebr nder t\u00eb artistit dhe k\u00ebng\u00ebtarit t\u00eb mrekulluesh\u00ebm z.Sherif Merdani, q\u00eb sapo ishte liruar nga birucat e diktatur\u00ebs ku vuajti d\u00ebnimin n\u00eb burgun fam\u00ebkeq t\u00eb Spa\u00e7it. Aktiviteti u organizua p\u00ebr nder t\u00eb tij nga intelektual\u00ebt artdash\u00ebs t\u00eb k\u00ebtij qyteti pasi z.Merdani n\u00eb nj\u00eb nga fshatrat e k\u00ebtij qyteti kishte dh\u00ebn\u00eb m\u00ebsim muzike pas d\u00ebnimit q\u00eb ai mori n\u00eb Festivalin e 11 t\u00eb RTSH, ku dhe ishte arrestuar e d\u00ebnuar me nenin fam\u00ebkeq 55 p\u00ebr agjitacion e propagand\u00eb.<\/p>\n<p><strong>Formimi i p\u00ebrsonalitetit, mendoni se ishte p\u00ebr pasoj\u00eb t\u00eb k\u00ebmb\u00ebnguljes tuaj? <\/strong><\/p>\n<p><strong>\u00a0<\/strong>Personaliteti i \u00e7do njeriu per mendimin tim formohet dita dit\u00ebs dhe \u00ebsht\u00eb produkt i padiskutuesh\u00ebm i ndikimit t\u00eb familjes, shoq\u00ebris\u00eb dhe koh\u00ebs apo ngjarjeve q\u00eb l\u00ebn\u00eb gjurm\u00eb t\u00eb pashlyeshme n\u00eb jet\u00ebn t\u00ebnde.<\/p>\n<p>Tek un\u00eb ndikuan t\u00eb trija, hera-her\u00ebs ngadal\u00eb dhe hera-her\u00ebs vrullsh\u00ebm.<\/p>\n<p>Njohja bashkshortin tim n\u00eb fillim te vitit 1989, bisedat mes nesh, un\u00eb e rritur n\u00eb nj\u00eb familje n\u00ebnpun\u00ebsish dhe ai rritur n\u00eb nj\u00eb familje t\u00eb thjesht\u00eb pun\u00ebtore, banues n\u00eb nj\u00eb nga zonat m\u00eb t\u00eb varfra t\u00eb qytetit t\u00eb Tiran\u00ebs, me personalitet te forte dhe kembngul\u00ebs, soll\u00ebn nj\u00eb ndryshim t\u00eb madh t\u00eb kuptimit tim p\u00ebr koh\u00ebn ku jetonim dhe skish si t\u00eb ndodhte ndryshe dhe n\u00eb personalitetin tim.<\/p>\n<p>Sigurisht k\u00ebta faktore ndikuan rrenjesisht n\u00eb personalitetin tim, por natyrsh\u00ebm ishte\u00a0 k\u00ebmbngulja ajo q\u00eb i dha jet\u00eb forc\u00ebs s\u00eb personalitetit br\u00ebnda meje, k\u00ebmbngulja p\u00ebr t\u00eb dh\u00ebn\u00eb dhe marr\u00eb me t\u00eb mir\u00ebn n\u00eb \u00e7do \u00e7ast t\u00eb jet\u00ebs, t\u00eb cil\u00ebn jam munduar ta p\u00ebrcjell\u00eb dhe te f\u00ebmij\u00ebt e mi.<\/p>\n<p><strong>Jeni psikologe, do desha t\u00eb dija a ka nj\u00eb cak moshor p\u00ebr formimin e njeriut? <\/strong><\/p>\n<p>Si psikologe dhe sot si n\u00ebn\u00eb, grua apo shoqe, them me bindje se cak moshor per formimin e njeriut nuk ka. E them kete sepse gjat\u00eb gjithe jet\u00ebs cdokush kalon dhe perjeton ngjarje dhe peripeci t\u00eb shumta t\u00eb cilat k\u00ebrkojn\u00eb t\u00eb marr\u00ebsh vendime t\u00eb r\u00ebnd\u00ebsishme dhe de\u00e7izive p\u00ebr jet\u00ebn dhe familjen t\u00ebnde. K\u00ebto vendime k\u00ebrkojn\u00eb nj\u00eb formim i cili duhet ti p\u00ebrgjigjet k\u00ebrkesave t\u00eb koh\u00ebs dhe realitetit ku jeton.<\/p>\n<p><strong>Sa \u00ebsht\u00eb roli i familjes n\u00eb p\u00ebrcaktimin e p\u00ebrsonalitetit dhe, p\u00ebraf\u00ebrsisht kur fillon ta ndjej njeriu veten si nj\u00eb p\u00ebrson me r\u00ebnd\u00ebsi?<\/strong><\/p>\n<p>Roli i familjes \u00ebsht\u00eb nj\u00eb nga shum\u00eb arsyet q\u00eb p\u00ebrm\u00ebnda m\u00eb sip\u00ebr n\u00eb p\u00ebrcaktimin e personalitetit, por \u00ebsht\u00eb nga m\u00eb t\u00eb r\u00ebnd\u00ebsishmit p\u00ebr faktin se me familjen kalon gjith\u00eb jet\u00ebn t\u00ebnde.<\/p>\n<p><a href=\"http:\/\/revistakuvendi.org\/wp-content\/uploads\/2019\/07\/Beneta-familja.jpg\"><img loading=\"lazy\" decoding=\"async\" class=\"alignleft size-medium wp-image-7808\" src=\"http:\/\/revistakuvendi.org\/wp-content\/uploads\/2019\/07\/Beneta-familja-300x225.jpg\" alt=\"\" width=\"300\" height=\"225\" srcset=\"https:\/\/revistakuvendi.org\/wp-content\/uploads\/2019\/07\/Beneta-familja-300x225.jpg 300w, https:\/\/revistakuvendi.org\/wp-content\/uploads\/2019\/07\/Beneta-familja.jpg 448w\" sizes=\"auto, (max-width: 300px) 100vw, 300px\" \/><\/a><strong><em>Familja e Benetes<\/em><\/strong><\/p>\n<p>\u00c7do njeri e ndjen vehten nj\u00eb person me r\u00ebnd\u00ebsi kur i duhet t\u00eb marr\u00eb vendime t\u00eb r\u00ebnd\u00ebsishme n\u00eb jet\u00ebn e tij. Dhe kjo ndodh vet\u00ebm at\u00ebhere kur kupton q\u00eb je plot\u00ebsisht i aft\u00eb t\u00eb zgjidh\u00ebsh pozitivisht ato, apo t\u00eb mbash mbi supe pasojet negative prej k\u00ebtyre vendimeve. Vet\u00ebm at\u00ebher\u00eb mund t\u00eb thuash q\u00eb je i r\u00ebnd\u00ebsish\u00ebm n\u00eb rradh\u00eb t\u00eb par\u00eb p\u00ebr vehten dhe pastaj p\u00ebr t\u00eb tjer\u00ebt.<\/p>\n<p><strong>Studimet tuaja dhe arritjet, ia dedikoni dikujt apo vetes? <\/strong><\/p>\n<p>Gjithshka q\u00eb kam arritur ja dedikoj FAMILJES.<\/p>\n<p><em>Pothuaj t\u00eb gjitha gj\u00ebrat jan\u00eb t\u00eb p\u00ebrkoh\u00ebshme, familja \u00ebsht\u00eb e p\u00ebrhershme.Ajo eshte dhe do mbetet kollona ku mbeshtetemi te gjithe sa here ndjehemi te pafuqishem !<\/em><\/p>\n<p><em>\u00a0<\/em><strong>A ishin \u00ebndrrat dhe prirjet tuaja zgjedhja e studimeve?<\/strong><\/p>\n<p><strong>\u00a0<\/strong>Zgjedhja e studimeve fillimisht pas shkolles s\u00eb mesme JO.<\/p>\n<p>Enderra dhe prirjet e mia ishin letersia, arti dhe muzika.<\/p>\n<p>Por diktatura programonte nenpunesit si rrjedhoje per ty vendosnin te tjeret.<\/p>\n<p>Ti kishe vetem te drejte te thoje cfare desheroje por asnje mundesi te vendosje.<\/p>\n<p>Me ardhjen e demokracise dhe reformes ne sistemin arsimor, gjithshka ndryshoi pozitivisht. Prirjet dhe enderrat e mia ndryshuan.<\/p>\n<p>Zgjodha dhe vendosa t\u00eb ndjek studimet per Psikologji n\u00eb vitin 2008, pra kur isha 37 vje\u00e7e, profesion qe e kam sot dhe do ta kryeja me kenaq\u00ebsi dhe pasion ne cdo moment.<\/p>\n<p><strong>\u00a0<\/strong><strong>N\u00eb fillimet e Levizjeve Demokratike ju keni q\u00ebn\u00eb nj\u00ebzetvje\u00e7are. Si e p\u00ebrfytyronit Ju demokracin\u00eb? Kush ishte p\u00ebrsoni q\u00eb u nxiti t\u00eb angazhoheshit n\u00eb k\u00ebt\u00eb Levizje? A keni nj\u00eb model t\u00eb nj\u00eb lideri karizmatik, q\u00eb doni t\u2019i ngjani, ose q\u00eb mendoni se i nevoitet masave?<\/strong><\/p>\n<p><a href=\"http:\/\/revistakuvendi.org\/wp-content\/uploads\/2019\/07\/Beneta-demostrata-19.jpg\"><img loading=\"lazy\" decoding=\"async\" class=\"alignleft size-medium wp-image-7806\" src=\"http:\/\/revistakuvendi.org\/wp-content\/uploads\/2019\/07\/Beneta-demostrata-19-240x300.jpg\" alt=\"\" width=\"240\" height=\"300\" srcset=\"https:\/\/revistakuvendi.org\/wp-content\/uploads\/2019\/07\/Beneta-demostrata-19-240x300.jpg 240w, https:\/\/revistakuvendi.org\/wp-content\/uploads\/2019\/07\/Beneta-demostrata-19.jpg 336w\" sizes=\"auto, (max-width: 240px) 100vw, 240px\" \/><\/a>Periudha e njohjes me bashkshortin tim perkon me ngjarjen m\u00eb t\u00eb r\u00ebnd\u00ebsishme n\u00eb Shqip\u00ebrin\u00eb e asaj kohe, L\u00ebvizja Studentore e Dhjetorit 1990, q\u00eb solli dhe rr\u00ebzimin e diktatur\u00ebs dhe t\u00eb dy ishim pjes\u00eb aktive e k\u00ebsaj l\u00ebvizje.<\/p>\n<p>Askush nuk m\u00eb nxiti, aq m\u00eb shum\u00eb bashk\u00ebshorti im. Ishte ndjenja e liris\u00eb q\u00eb m\u00eb p\u00ebrfshiu dhe mua si gjith\u00eb shqiptar\u00ebt e q\u00eb filloi nga ne studentet.<\/p>\n<p>\u201cE duam Shqiperine si gjithe Europa\u201d ishte thirrja qe ushtonte ne sheshin Demokracia dhe ne thelb Europa ishte perfytyrimi i pare per mua se c\u2019eshte demokracia.<\/p>\n<p>Liria e fjales, liria e veprimit, liria e mendimit, liria e zgjedhjes dhe e perzgjedhjes ishin perfytyrimi im i pare per Demokracin\u00eb. P\u00ebr mua Demokracia ishte vet\u00eb LIRIA.<\/p>\n<p>Modeli i liderit karizmatik , Sali Berisha n\u00eb Shqip\u00ebri dhe Ibrahim Rrugova ne Kosove.<\/p>\n<p>Model i liderit qe dua ti ngjaj dhe qe mendoj se i duhet masave <a href=\"https:\/\/www.google.com\/search?rlz=1C1CHBF_en&amp;q=John+Friserald+kenedy&amp;nfpr=1&amp;sa=X&amp;ved=0ahUKEwjx05St6r_jAhUCxIsKHcd6Dy0QvgUIKygB\">John Friserald Kenedy<\/a>.<\/p>\n<p><strong><a href=\"http:\/\/revistakuvendi.org\/wp-content\/uploads\/2019\/07\/Beneta1.jpg\"><img loading=\"lazy\" decoding=\"async\" class=\"alignleft size-medium wp-image-7810\" src=\"http:\/\/revistakuvendi.org\/wp-content\/uploads\/2019\/07\/Beneta1-218x300.jpg\" alt=\"\" width=\"218\" height=\"300\" srcset=\"https:\/\/revistakuvendi.org\/wp-content\/uploads\/2019\/07\/Beneta1-218x300.jpg 218w, https:\/\/revistakuvendi.org\/wp-content\/uploads\/2019\/07\/Beneta1.jpg 271w\" sizes=\"auto, (max-width: 218px) 100vw, 218px\" \/><\/a>N\u00eb t\u00eb gjitha rastet dhe vitet pas 90-tes jeni par\u00eb n\u00eb k\u00ebto levizje, por s\u00eb fundi nga shkurti i k\u00ebti viti e k\u00ebndej, keni pas\u00eb rastin t\u00eb p\u00ebrballeshit dhe me nj\u00eb fenomen tjet\u00ebr, gazin lotsjell\u00ebs dhe sjelljen deri diku t\u00eb dhunshem t\u00eb policis\u00eb shqiptare. \u00c7far\u00eb mund t\u00eb thoni p\u00ebr k\u00ebt\u00eb? Si e mendon zgjidhjen Beneta! Si mund t\u00eb b\u00ebh\u00ebt qellimi juaj i kuptuesh\u00ebm dhe i p\u00ebrkrahsh\u00ebm nga masa t\u00eb shumta popullore. Mendoni se p\u00ebrkrahja \u00ebsht\u00eb dhe vot\u00eb kur t\u00eb jet\u00eb puna. <\/strong><\/p>\n<p><a href=\"http:\/\/revistakuvendi.org\/wp-content\/uploads\/2019\/07\/Beneta-demos.jpg\"><img loading=\"lazy\" decoding=\"async\" class=\"alignleft size-medium wp-image-7807\" src=\"http:\/\/revistakuvendi.org\/wp-content\/uploads\/2019\/07\/Beneta-demos-300x225.jpg\" alt=\"\" width=\"300\" height=\"225\" srcset=\"https:\/\/revistakuvendi.org\/wp-content\/uploads\/2019\/07\/Beneta-demos-300x225.jpg 300w, https:\/\/revistakuvendi.org\/wp-content\/uploads\/2019\/07\/Beneta-demos.jpg 448w\" sizes=\"auto, (max-width: 300px) 100vw, 300px\" \/><\/a>Sic dhe ju e keni vene re pas 26 Shkurti Opozita Shqiptare ka organizuar nje sere protestash me sakte 10 te tilla kombetare dhe disa te tjera lokale. Kam marre pjese ne te gjitha protestat pasi sot ne Shqiperi po qeveris nje bande q\u00eb ka ardhur ne pushtet me votat e krimit dhe droges dhe po perdor te gjitha mjetet per ta mbajtur me dhune pushtetin, po perdor kunder popullit opozitar qe sot eshte shumica, FNSH dhe Policine, po perdor gazin lotsjelles dhe sprajtin kunder \u00e7dokujt qe del ne proteste.<\/p>\n<p>Nuk pyesin per moshe apo gjini thjesht duan te na helmojne e te na marrin frymen qe te ulim koken dhe te friksohemi.<\/p>\n<p>Kjo bande ne pushtet po varferon cdo dite shqiptaret duke pasuruar vetem nje grusht oligarkesh te kapur ne pergjime me ze dhe figure ne krim, vjedhje dhe korrupsion.<\/p>\n<p>Zgjedhjet e Lira dhe te ndershme jane zgjidhja e vetme por pa kete Kryeminister qe vjedh dhe kur konkuron i vetem, nje kleptoman votash tipik, cinik dhe i papergjegjshem. 85% e Shqiptareve ne votimet e thirrura prej tij dhe Sektit qe perfaqeson ne 30 Qershor e abandonoi, i tha JO dikatures.<\/p>\n<p>Takimet me te gjithe ata qe vuajne pasojat e ketij rregjimi oligarkesh te pangopshem dhe sqarimi per pasojat nese heshtim sot, denoncimi i vazhdueshem ne media e takime me njerzit e thjesht e te vertetave te kesaj qeverie te lidhur me krimin e drogen, denoncimi i korrupsionit, perballja me rregjimin pa kthim, vetem keshtu do arrijme te bindim masat popullore dhe cdokend qe sot vuan.<\/p>\n<p>Jo \u00e7do perkrahje perkthehet ne vote.<\/p>\n<p>E rendesishme eshte qe eshte mbeshtetje dhe zgjim kunder se keqjes qe po na merr frymen.<\/p>\n<p><strong>Si \u00ebsht\u00eb Beneta n\u00ebn\u00eb dhe \u00e7far\u00eb u k\u00ebshillon n\u00ebnave t\u00eb sotme, n\u00eb koh\u00ebn e kmpjuterizimit masiv t\u00eb t\u00eb gjitha moshave? <\/strong><\/p>\n<p><a href=\"http:\/\/revistakuvendi.org\/wp-content\/uploads\/2019\/07\/Beneta-nene.jpg\"><img loading=\"lazy\" decoding=\"async\" class=\"alignleft size-medium wp-image-7809\" src=\"http:\/\/revistakuvendi.org\/wp-content\/uploads\/2019\/07\/Beneta-nene-180x300.jpg\" alt=\"\" width=\"180\" height=\"300\" srcset=\"https:\/\/revistakuvendi.org\/wp-content\/uploads\/2019\/07\/Beneta-nene-180x300.jpg 180w, https:\/\/revistakuvendi.org\/wp-content\/uploads\/2019\/07\/Beneta-nene.jpg 269w\" sizes=\"auto, (max-width: 180px) 100vw, 180px\" \/><\/a>Jam n\u00ebn\u00eb q\u00eb me durim dhe perkushtim I kam falur vet\u00ebm dashuri f\u00ebmij\u00ebve t\u00eb mi dhe I kam k\u00ebrkuar t\u00eb b\u00ebjn\u00eb t\u00eb nj\u00ebjt\u00ebn gj\u00eb n\u00eb jet\u00eb.<\/p>\n<p>T\u00eb nj\u00ebjt\u00ebn gj\u00eb u k\u00ebsilloj n\u00ebnave t\u00eb sotme. Durim, P\u00ebrkushtim dhe Pasion p\u00ebr f\u00ebmij\u00ebt tuaj.<\/p>\n<p>Ato jan\u00eb pasqyra dhe refleksioni I gjithshka tuaj\u00ebs.<\/p>\n<p>Urime Beneta n\u00eb realizimin e \u00ebndrrave Tuaja!<\/p>\n<p><strong>Bisedoi: Pjet\u00ebr Jaku, Korrik 2019<\/strong><\/p>\n","protected":false},"excerpt":{"rendered":"<p>Bised\u00eb me aktivisten e njohur BENETA SHENA Benta Shena, nj\u00eb nga pjes\u00ebmarr\u00ebset e para n\u00eb Levizjen Demokratike t\u00eb Shqip\u00ebris\u00eb postkomuniste, \u00ebsht\u00eb nj\u00eb nd\u00ebr femrat e rralla dhe t\u00eb pakta, q\u00eb p\u00ebr asnj\u00eb moment nuk u nda nga demostrimi i idealeve demokratike t\u00eb saj.<\/p>\n","protected":false},"author":1,"featured_media":7800,"comment_status":"open","ping_status":"open","sticky":false,"template":"","format":"standard","meta":{"footnotes":""},"categories":[1],"tags":[],"class_list":["post-7799","post","type-post","status-publish","format-standard","has-post-thumbnail","hentry","category-intervista"],"_links":{"self":[{"href":"https:\/\/revistakuvendi.org\/index.php?rest_route=\/wp\/v2\/posts\/7799","targetHints":{"allow":["GET"]}}],"collection":[{"href":"https:\/\/revistakuvendi.org\/index.php?rest_route=\/wp\/v2\/posts"}],"about":[{"href":"https:\/\/revistakuvendi.org\/index.php?rest_route=\/wp\/v2\/types\/post"}],"author":[{"embeddable":true,"href":"https:\/\/revistakuvendi.org\/index.php?rest_route=\/wp\/v2\/users\/1"}],"replies":[{"embeddable":true,"href":"https:\/\/revistakuvendi.org\/index.php?rest_route=%2Fwp%2Fv2%2Fcomments&post=7799"}],"version-history":[{"count":1,"href":"https:\/\/revistakuvendi.org\/index.php?rest_route=\/wp\/v2\/posts\/7799\/revisions"}],"predecessor-version":[{"id":7811,"href":"https:\/\/revistakuvendi.org\/index.php?rest_route=\/wp\/v2\/posts\/7799\/revisions\/7811"}],"wp:featuredmedia":[{"embeddable":true,"href":"https:\/\/revistakuvendi.org\/index.php?rest_route=\/wp\/v2\/media\/7800"}],"wp:attachment":[{"href":"https:\/\/revistakuvendi.org\/index.php?rest_route=%2Fwp%2Fv2%2Fmedia&parent=7799"}],"wp:term":[{"taxonomy":"category","embeddable":true,"href":"https:\/\/revistakuvendi.org\/index.php?rest_route=%2Fwp%2Fv2%2Fcategories&post=7799"},{"taxonomy":"post_tag","embeddable":true,"href":"https:\/\/revistakuvendi.org\/index.php?rest_route=%2Fwp%2Fv2%2Ftags&post=7799"}],"curies":[{"name":"wp","href":"https:\/\/api.w.org\/{rel}","templated":true}]}}