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<\/a><\/p>\nQasja e sotme e disave ndaj gjakmarrjes \u00ebsht\u00eb m\u00eb absurde se vet\u00eb gjakmarrja. Thuajse ngado q\u00eb t\u2019ia z\u00ebsh fillin asaj has n\u00eb opinione e interpretime t\u00eb gabuara. Edhe pse jo sa m\u00eb par\u00eb, prap\u00eb nxitohet q\u00eb jo pak vrasjeve t\u2019iu mvishet ky motiv i paqen\u00eb. Shoqata dhe komitete t\u00eb ashtuquajtura pajtimi ka vite q\u00eb rrojn\u00eb me k\u00ebt\u00eb \u201cpun\u00eb\u201d, duke publikuar me leht\u00ebsin\u00eb m\u00eb t\u00eb madhe shifra t\u00eb sterfryra familjesh apo f\u00ebmij\u00ebsh t\u00eb ngujuar. Ashtu si\u00e7 ka ende media, sidomos t\u00eb huaja, q\u00eb vijojn\u00eb ta ken\u00eb gjakmarrjen nj\u00eb tem\u00eb t\u00eb parap\u00eblqyer, ka apo nuk ka ngjarje k\u00ebsisoj. Me k\u00ebt\u00eb nuk duam t\u00eb themi se nuk ka raste t\u00eb gjakmarrjes, por zyrtarisht na duhet t\u00eb marrim p\u00ebr t\u00eb tilla vet\u00ebm ato p\u00ebr t\u00eb cilat \u00ebsht\u00eb shprehur me vendim gjykata, bazuar n\u00eb Kodin Penal.<\/p>\n
At\u00ebher\u00eb natyrsh\u00ebm lind pyetja: (s)a \u00ebsht\u00eb sot lajm gjakmarrja n\u00eb Shqip\u00ebri? Kush duhet ta ket\u00eb statistik\u00ebn e saj? Ministria e Drejt\u00ebsis\u00eb, n\u00eb bashk\u00ebpunim me organizata joqeveritare t\u00eb p\u00ebrgjegjshme, ka publikuar dinamik\u00ebn e krimit t\u00eb vrasjes, duke specifikuar ato p\u00ebr gjakmarrje, p\u00ebr periudh\u00ebn 2004 deri n\u00eb 2009 etj. Vitet e fundit ka nj\u00eb r\u00ebnie t\u00eb dukshme t\u00eb gjakmarrjes si e till\u00eb. K\u00ebshtu, sipas Policis\u00eb s\u00eb Shtetit, n\u00eb vitin 2014 ka patur 4 vrasje p\u00ebr gjakmarrje, n\u00eb vitin 2015 nuk ka patur asnj\u00eb vrasje me k\u00ebt\u00eb motiv dhe n\u00eb vitin 2016 vet\u00ebm nj\u00eb. Mir\u00ebpo, si\u00e7 u tha, shpesh manipulohet me shifrat e gjakmarrjes, duke i dhjet\u00ebfishuar ato, me q\u00ebllim q\u00eb t\u00eb p\u00ebrligjen \u00e7ertifikatat e pasiguris\u00eb s\u00eb jet\u00ebs, q\u00eb l\u00ebshojn\u00eb kundrejt parave n\u00ebn dor\u00eb disa organizma \u201cpopullore\u201d pajtimesh, me q\u00ebllim q\u00eb persona t\u00eb ndrysh\u00ebm t\u00eb fitojn\u00eb azil n\u00eb Belgjik\u00eb, Angli etj. Dhe habia \u00ebsht\u00eb se nuk i p\u00ebrg\u00ebnj\u00ebshtron askush. Normalisht k\u00ebtu duhet t\u00eb filloj\u00eb shteti, te penalizimi i statistikave t\u00eb rrejshme. Dikur t\u00eb fusnin n\u00eb burg p\u00ebr nj\u00eb mullar bari t\u00eb raportuar m\u00eb shum\u00eb se fakti, tani mund t\u2019i b\u00ebsh t\u00eb gjall\u00ebt t\u00eb vdekur dhe t\u00eb vdekurit t\u00eb gjall\u00eb dhe nuk mban kurr\u00ebfar\u00eb p\u00ebrgjegj\u00ebsie ligjore. Doemos, aty ku ende vidhet e manipulohet vota, si t\u00eb mos luhet me shifrat e gjakmarrjes, p\u00ebr t\u2019i th\u00ebn\u00eb bot\u00ebs na i hidhni ca mij\u00ebra euro q\u00eb t\u2019i ndihmojm\u00eb familjet e ngujuara!?…<\/p>\n
Nuk duam asesi ta minimizojm\u00eb gjakmarrjen, se mjafton dhe nj\u00eb rast q\u00eb t\u00eb bjer\u00eb kambana fort, por duhet theksuar se problemi i sot\u00ebm i Shqip\u00ebris\u00eb \u00ebsht\u00eb krimi i organizuar dhe vrasjet m\u00eb t\u00eb shumta mbajn\u00eb \u201cautor\u00ebsin\u00eb\u201d e tij, p\u00ebr prishje pazaresh n\u00eb rrjetet e trafiqeve t\u00eb paligjshme, pa harruar dhe vrasjet n\u00eb familje q\u00eb jan\u00eb nj\u00eb gangren\u00eb e k\u00ebsaj kohe tranzitive. P\u00ebr organet ligjzbatuese, policin\u00eb, prokurorin\u00eb, gjykatat etj. \u00ebsht\u00eb e qart\u00eb q\u00eb vrasjet p\u00ebr gjakmarrje z\u00ebn\u00eb nj\u00eb p\u00ebrqindje t\u00eb ul\u00ebt n\u00eb raport m\u00eb ato p\u00ebr motive t\u00eb tjera. \u00cbsht\u00eb tjet\u00ebr gj\u00eb kur p\u00ebrplasjet me arm\u00eb, p\u00ebrfshi dhe me kundratank, t\u00eb grupeve kriminale p\u00ebrfundojn\u00eb n\u00eb hakmarrje t\u00eb nd\u00ebrsjellt\u00eb q\u00eb nuk njeh limite n\u00eb viktima. P\u00ebrndryshe kjo \u00ebsht\u00eb lufta e mafias dhe duhet v\u00ebshtruar si e till\u00eb. Ajo ka \u201ckanunin\u201d e saj si dhe n\u00eb vendet e tjera per\u00ebndimore, ku n\u00eb thelb nuk \u00ebsht\u00eb nderi i cenuar, si n\u00eb Kanunin e Lek\u00ebs, por intersat e p\u00ebrfitimve nga trafikimi i qenieve njer\u00ebzore, drog\u00ebs, arm\u00ebve etj. Merret me mend se \u201cpajtimtar\u00ebt\u201d nuk mund t\u2019iu afrohen p\u00ebr pajtim pal\u00ebve t\u00eb p\u00ebrfshira n\u00eb k\u00ebto konflikte t\u00eb p\u00ebrgjakshme, q\u00eb jan\u00eb arena e v\u00ebrtet\u00eb e krimit t\u00eb sot\u00ebm t\u00eb vrasjes n\u00eb Shqip\u00ebri, me donim t\u00eb fort\u00ebsh n\u00eb qytetet kryesore t\u00eb vendit, por gjurmojn\u00eb me qiri ndonj\u00eb gjakmarrje tipike n\u00eb rrethinat e Shkodr\u00ebs. Zhurma q\u00eb p\u00ebrcillet n\u00eb opinion publik lidhur me gjamarrjen tradicionale vjen kryesisht nga presioni i k\u00ebtyre bi\u00e7im shoqatave arkaike, ndon\u00ebse me kostum firmato, q\u00eb \u201cushqehen\u201d me gjakmarrjen. Shtjellimi yn\u00eb n\u00eb k\u00ebt\u00eb rast \u00ebsht\u00eb i nevojsh\u00ebm p\u00ebr t\u00eb mos mbushur me retotik\u00eb mbi gjakmarrjen gazetat, televizionet, shkollat e institucione t\u00eb tjera publike, kinse n\u00eb em\u00ebr t\u00eb luftimit t\u00eb saj. \u00cbsht\u00eb donkishoteske thirrja p\u00ebr t\u00eb shp\u00ebtuar f\u00ebmij\u00ebt e ngujuar, n\u00eb nj\u00eb zon\u00eb ku nuk ka asnj\u00eb t\u00eb till\u00eb, si\u00e7 ka ndodhur!…<\/p>\n
Me rishfaqjen e gjakmarrjes pas 90-s, ndodhi dhe kund\u00ebr-reagimi sipas tradit\u00ebs kanunore, \u00e7ka mobilizoi individ\u00eb me ndikim t\u00eb ndjesh\u00ebm n\u00eb opinionin publik t\u00eb zon\u00ebs, q\u00eb luajt\u00ebn rol pajtues dhe frenues. Individ\u00eb t\u00eb till\u00eb, shpesh dhe t\u00eb grupuar, nuk kan\u00eb vepruar p\u00ebr syt\u00eb e t\u00eb tjer\u00ebve, aq m\u00eb pak p\u00ebr p\u00ebrfitim material. Ata m\u00eb t\u00eb v\u00ebrtet\u00eb i kan\u00eb ulur arm\u00ebt e gjakmarrjes shum\u00ebkund dhe sot jan\u00eb anonim\u00eb p\u00ebr publikun e gjer\u00eb, pa\u00e7ka se njer\u00ebzit q\u00eb i kan\u00eb njohur flasim me nderim p\u00ebr emra nd\u00ebrmjet\u00ebsish t\u00eb suksesh\u00ebm n\u00eb zonat veriore. Po ashtu, asokohe, n\u00eb Tiran\u00eb e Shkod\u00ebr u krijuan dhe disa organizma t\u00eb shoq\u00ebris\u00eb civile, p\u00ebr t\u00eb drejtat e njeriut, zgjidhjen e konflikteve dhe pajtimin e mosmarr\u00ebveshjeve, veprimin qytetar etj., me intelektual\u00eb me integritet, pedagog\u00eb, gazetar\u00eb, prokuror\u00eb, polic\u00eb, moderator\u00eb etj., mb\u00ebshtetur dhe nga donacione e organizata europiane, q\u00eb kan\u00eb vepruar p\u00ebr nd\u00ebrgjegj\u00ebsimin e publikut kund\u00ebr krimit t\u00eb gjakmarrjes etj.<\/p>\n
Ama krahas k\u00ebtyre kan\u00eb lul\u00ebzuar dhe mashtruesit jo t\u00eb pakt\u00eb shoqatoman\u00eb n\u00eb k\u00ebt\u00eb zeje dhe kjo e ka deformuar misionin humanitar komb\u00ebtar t\u00eb pajtimit, duke dominuar jo elitat, por pajtimtar\u00ebt diletant\u00eb me \u201cqeleshe\u201d, pa kurr\u00ebfar\u00eb vizioni, trajnimi dhe kualifikimi p\u00ebr t\u00eb vepruar n\u00eb k\u00ebt\u00eb rrafsh delikat. Nj\u00ebr\u00ebz, q\u00eb nuk kishin patur asnj\u00eb ndikim publik, befas mor\u00ebn rolin e kinse pajtuesve, duke shkuar sht\u00ebpi m\u00eb sht\u00ebpi me kamera nga pas, si nj\u00eb mjet p\u00ebr t\u00eb p\u00ebrfituar dollar\u00eb, marka, euro etj. Oreksi i k\u00ebtyre jo pak individ\u00ebve q\u00eb ngrit\u00ebn \u201cshoqata\u201d personale nuk ka pushuar as sot, dhe pse ka nga ata q\u00eb kan\u00eb p\u00ebrfundur n\u00eb burg p\u00ebr \u00e7ertifikata t\u00eb rrejshme dhe abuzime financiare n\u00eb em\u00ebr t\u00eb gjakmarrjes. K\u00ebta e kan\u00eb \u00e7uar gjakmarrjen e amplifikuar prej tyre deri n\u00eb institucionet e lart\u00eb t\u00eb BE-s\u00eb, duke e paraqitur at\u00eb si rrezikun kryesor t\u00eb shqiptar\u00ebve.\u00a0Por, edhe pse ka nj\u00eb mosp\u00ebrputhje drastike mes shifrave t\u00eb fryra t\u00eb gjakmarrjes n\u00eb vite t\u00eb tyre me ato t\u00eb institucioneve t\u00eb drejt\u00ebsis\u00eb, shteti asnj\u00ebher\u00eb nuk e monitoroi e parandaloi veprimtarin\u00eb mashtruese t\u00eb pajtuesve t\u00eb vet\u00ebdeklaruar dhe shoqatave t\u00eb tyre fantazm\u00eb, q\u00eb veprojn\u00eb jo n\u00eb Aprip\u00ebn e Gurit mes bjeshk\u00ebve t\u00eb Drinit, por n\u00eb mes t\u00eb Tiran\u00ebs etj.<\/p>\n","protected":false},"excerpt":{"rendered":"
NDUE DEDAJ Qasja e sotme e disave ndaj gjakmarrjes \u00ebsht\u00eb m\u00eb absurde se vet\u00eb gjakmarrja. Thuajse ngado q\u00eb t\u2019ia z\u00ebsh fillin asaj has n\u00eb opinione e interpretime t\u00eb gabuara. Edhe pse jo sa m\u00eb par\u00eb, prap\u00eb nxitohet q\u00eb jo pak vrasjeve t\u2019iu mvishet<\/p>\n","protected":false},"author":1,"featured_media":7010,"comment_status":"open","ping_status":"open","sticky":false,"template":"","format":"standard","meta":{"footnotes":""},"categories":[12],"tags":[],"class_list":["post-7009","post","type-post","status-publish","format-standard","has-post-thumbnail","hentry","category-jete-komuniteti"],"_links":{"self":[{"href":"https:\/\/revistakuvendi.org\/index.php?rest_route=\/wp\/v2\/posts\/7009","targetHints":{"allow":["GET"]}}],"collection":[{"href":"https:\/\/revistakuvendi.org\/index.php?rest_route=\/wp\/v2\/posts"}],"about":[{"href":"https:\/\/revistakuvendi.org\/index.php?rest_route=\/wp\/v2\/types\/post"}],"author":[{"embeddable":true,"href":"https:\/\/revistakuvendi.org\/index.php?rest_route=\/wp\/v2\/users\/1"}],"replies":[{"embeddable":true,"href":"https:\/\/revistakuvendi.org\/index.php?rest_route=%2Fwp%2Fv2%2Fcomments&post=7009"}],"version-history":[{"count":1,"href":"https:\/\/revistakuvendi.org\/index.php?rest_route=\/wp\/v2\/posts\/7009\/revisions"}],"predecessor-version":[{"id":7012,"href":"https:\/\/revistakuvendi.org\/index.php?rest_route=\/wp\/v2\/posts\/7009\/revisions\/7012"}],"wp:featuredmedia":[{"embeddable":true,"href":"https:\/\/revistakuvendi.org\/index.php?rest_route=\/wp\/v2\/media\/7010"}],"wp:attachment":[{"href":"https:\/\/revistakuvendi.org\/index.php?rest_route=%2Fwp%2Fv2%2Fmedia&parent=7009"}],"wp:term":[{"taxonomy":"category","embeddable":true,"href":"https:\/\/revistakuvendi.org\/index.php?rest_route=%2Fwp%2Fv2%2Fcategories&post=7009"},{"taxonomy":"post_tag","embeddable":true,"href":"https:\/\/revistakuvendi.org\/index.php?rest_route=%2Fwp%2Fv2%2Ftags&post=7009"}],"curies":[{"name":"wp","href":"https:\/\/api.w.org\/{rel}","templated":true}]}}