{"id":6075,"date":"2016-05-10T23:05:27","date_gmt":"2016-05-10T23:05:27","guid":{"rendered":"http:\/\/revistakuvendi.org\/?p=6075"},"modified":"2016-05-10T23:05:27","modified_gmt":"2016-05-10T23:05:27","slug":"butaforia-e-mbremjes-se-matures","status":"publish","type":"post","link":"https:\/\/revistakuvendi.org\/?p=6075","title":{"rendered":"BUTAFORIA E \u201cMBR\u00cbMJES S\u00cb MATUR\u00cbS\u201d"},"content":{"rendered":"<p><strong><a href=\"http:\/\/revistakuvendi.org\/wp-content\/uploads\/2016\/02\/DEDAJN.jpg\" rel=\"attachment wp-att-5906\"><img loading=\"lazy\" decoding=\"async\" class=\"alignleft size-medium wp-image-5906\" src=\"http:\/\/revistakuvendi.org\/wp-content\/uploads\/2016\/02\/DEDAJN-300x227.jpg\" alt=\"DEDAJ,N\" width=\"300\" height=\"227\" srcset=\"https:\/\/revistakuvendi.org\/wp-content\/uploads\/2016\/02\/DEDAJN-300x227.jpg 300w, https:\/\/revistakuvendi.org\/wp-content\/uploads\/2016\/02\/DEDAJN.jpg 311w\" sizes=\"auto, (max-width: 300px) 100vw, 300px\" \/><\/a>NDUE DEDAJ<\/strong><\/p>\n<p>&nbsp;<\/p>\n<p>Jemi n\u00eb maj dhe p\u00ebrgatitjet p\u00ebr \u201cMbr\u00ebmjen e Matur\u00ebs\u201d kan\u00eb filluar, q\u00eb sa vjen e b\u00ebhen m\u00eb t\u00eb ethshme.<!--more--> Tashm\u00eb dihet se ka nj\u00eb lloji aventurimi t\u00eb maturant\u00ebve me mbarimin e shkoll\u00ebs. Duket se e gjitha finalizohet te mbr\u00ebmja e fundit, nj\u00eb sfilate mode, ku \u00ebsht\u00eb zbehur pjesa ceremoniale, ajo e \u201cdiplomimit\u201d, q\u00eb nga t\u00eb rinjt\u00eb shihet si rutin\u00eb. Mendja e tyre punon vet\u00ebm se si t\u00eb paraqiten sa m\u00eb sharmant\u00eb, si yjet e pasarelave, se \u201cnjeriu nj\u00ebher\u00eb n\u00eb jet\u00eb e mbaron matur\u00ebn\u201d. Preokupimi m\u00eb i madh i vajzave \u00ebsht\u00eb fustani i matur\u00ebs, q\u00eb po e konkuron fustanin e nus\u00ebris\u00eb. \u201cNuk dija \u00e7far\u00eb doja sakt\u00ebsisht\u201d, thot\u00eb nj\u00eb vajz\u00eb p\u00ebr fustanin e asaj nate, \u201cama doja di\u00e7ka q\u00eb t\u00eb mos e kishte patur askush\u201d. Si duhet t\u00eb jet\u00eb ai, fustani magjik, i gjat\u00eb, i shkurt\u00ebr, i hapur, i mbyllur, lara &#8211; lara, me tollumbace? Fantazia k\u00ebtu \u00ebsht\u00eb m\u00eb pjellore se n\u00eb or\u00ebt e let\u00ebrsis\u00eb, algjebr\u00ebs, filozofis\u00eb. Kurse meraku i djemve \u00ebsht\u00eb si t\u00eb gjejn\u00eb nj\u00eb makin\u00eb t\u00eb shtrenjt\u00eb p\u00ebr at\u00eb dit\u00eb. K\u00ebshtu ajo e bekuar mbr\u00ebmje kthehet q\u00ebllim n\u00eb vetvete, p\u00ebrfshin floktoret, stilistet, restorantet, serviset. Askush nuk mendon a thua ka ardhur koha q\u00eb t\u00eb dilet nga ky lloji deliri rinor dhe festa e matur\u00ebs t\u00eb b\u00ebhet e thjesht\u00eb, e hijshme, me shpenzime t\u00eb arsyeshme, pasi sot p\u00ebr sot \u00ebsht\u00eb nj\u00eb butafori q\u00eb ka ng\u00ebrthyer jo vet\u00ebm shkollat, po dhe sheshet e rrug\u00ebt e qyteteve. Sigurisht nj\u00eb problem edukativ, psikologjik dhe social, q\u00eb i ka v\u00ebn\u00eb posht\u00eb edukator\u00ebt, le pastaj prind\u00ebrit, ku jo pak prej k\u00ebtyre t\u00eb fundit e shohin dhe si nj\u00eb \u00e7ast afirmimi t\u00eb f\u00ebmij\u00ebve t\u00eb tyre.<\/p>\n<p>P\u00ebrher\u00eb ka patur di\u00e7ka p\u00ebr t\u2019u mbajtur mend n\u00eb \u201cMbr\u00ebmjet e Matur\u00ebs\u201d, nj\u00eb ritual jo vet\u00ebm shqiptar, mes solemnes dhe festives, fjal\u00eb p\u00ebrsh\u00ebndet\u00ebse t\u00eb epror\u00ebve, \u00e7ertifikata mir\u00ebnjohje, shp\u00ebrblime, recitime, ritme muzikore, polifoto, si dhe ato fletoret tradicionale e sh\u00ebnimeve me mbresat e maturant\u00ebve p\u00ebr nj\u00ebri-tjetrin. Por n\u00eb vend q\u00eb kjo t\u00eb p\u00ebrkryhet si nj\u00eb spektak\u00ebl pjekurie e bukurie, nuk iu ka shp\u00ebtuar deformimeve t\u00eb tranzicionit. Ende nuk ka nj\u00eb konceptim t\u00eb qart\u00eb se si duhet t\u00eb jet\u00eb festa e matur\u00ebs, p\u00ebrderisa ajo ngjet si dy pika uji me nj\u00eb dasm\u00eb rurale, gjer te dekorimi allaturka i lokalit me shami t\u00eb kuqe n\u00ebp\u00ebr shkall\u00eb, q\u00eb mezi presin t\u00eb shfaqet nusja dhe dh\u00ebndri?! Nj\u00eb vajz\u00eb thoshte n\u00eb TV se mbr\u00ebmja e fundit duhet t\u00eb jet\u00eb \u201csi nj\u00eb dasm\u00eb e madhe\u201d. Ndokush tjet\u00ebr e sheh si gallat\u00eb. Maturant\u00ebt sikur mezi e kan\u00eb pritur at\u00eb dit\u00eb, t\u00eb vishen dh\u00ebnd\u00ebrisht e nus\u00ebrisht, t\u00eb shpalosin at\u00eb \u201calegri\u201d q\u00eb nuk kan\u00eb mundur m\u00eb par\u00eb. Ku \u00ebsht\u00eb e bukura e ndonj\u00eb gjimnazi t\u00eb kryeqytetit, q\u00eb lamtumira e maturant\u00ebve vjen duke u lyer e p\u00ebrlyer me miell e vez\u00eb, pastaj vrap e n\u00eb lavazhin e makinave?! Modeli i sot\u00ebm i k\u00ebtyre mbr\u00ebmjeve \u201cgal\u00e0\u201d \u00ebsht\u00eb fshikulluar dhe nga vet\u00eb t\u00eb rinjt\u00eb, disa prej t\u00eb cil\u00ebve gjer duke i refuzuar.<\/p>\n<p>Ndokush mund t\u00eb thot\u00eb jo kaq t\u00eb \u201cashp\u00ebr\u201d me maturant\u00ebt, ata kan\u00eb dit\u00ebn e tyre t\u00eb g\u00ebzojn\u00eb, pastaj kjo nuk \u00ebsht\u00eb nj\u00eb dukuri vet\u00ebm tek ne, n\u00eb Angli e Amerik\u00eb ka patur maturante qe kan\u00eb shkuar n\u00eb mbr\u00ebmjen e matur\u00ebs jo vet\u00ebm me limuzin\u00eb, po dhe me helikopterin e vog\u00ebl familjar, duke u ulur drejt e n\u00eb oborrin e shkoll\u00ebs. Doemos, ka ndodhur dhe k\u00ebshtu, deliri nuk njeh rac\u00eb, komb\u00ebsi, shtet, por nuk jan\u00eb skupet ato q\u00eb duhen marr\u00eb p\u00ebr model. Nuk \u00ebsht\u00eb as kali, as avioni ai me t\u00eb cilin mund t\u00eb vemi n\u00eb mbr\u00ebmjen e matur\u00ebs. \u00cbsht\u00eb natyrshm\u00ebria dhe thjesht\u00ebsia e nj\u00eb t\u00eb riu q\u00eb ka kryer shkollimin e mes\u00ebm dhe n\u00eb fest\u00ebn e matur\u00ebs duhet t\u00eb b\u00ebj\u00eb gjera t\u00eb pjekura q\u00eb t\u00eb mbahen mend dhe jo aventura qesharake. Nuk po themi q\u00eb maturant\u00ebt t\u00eb ven\u00eb n\u00eb \u201crresht\u201d n\u00eb Mbr\u00ebmjen e Matur\u00ebs, por t\u00eb mos mungoj\u00eb ajo gj\u00ebja shkollore, th\u00ebn\u00eb n\u00eb m\u00ebnyr\u00eb t\u00eb figurshme diploma. Pa t\u00eb \u00e7\u2019kuptim do t\u00eb kishte fustani i shtrenjt\u00eb apo kostumi firmato?<\/p>\n<p>T\u00eb gjith\u00eb kan\u00eb t\u00eb drejt\u00eb t\u00eb kremtojn\u00eb pas 12 vitesh shkollim, por kryekrejet maturant\u00ebt e m\u00ebsueses s\u00eb matematik\u00ebs Vera Balla n\u00eb gjimnazin e Lezh\u00ebs, q\u00eb vitin e kaluar e stolisen me dhjeta fundin e matur\u00ebs s\u00eb tyre, ku vet\u00ebm n\u00eb nj\u00ebr\u00ebn nga klasat e kat\u00ebrta (B) t\u00eb k\u00ebsaj shkolle me 42 nx\u00ebn\u00ebs, 31 prej tyre u vler\u00ebsuan me not\u00ebn 10. Kurse n\u00eb \u201cmatematik\u00eb e avancuar\u201d, nga 25 nx\u00ebn\u00ebs &#8211; 20 u vler\u00ebsuan me 10 e t\u00eb tjer\u00ebt me nj\u00eb a dy nota m\u00eb ul\u00ebt. Jan\u00eb motive t\u00eb tilla q\u00eb e kan\u00eb shtyr\u00eb DAR Lezh\u00eb t\u00eb organizoj\u00eb ceremoni t\u00eb posa\u00e7me me maturant\u00ebt e ekselenc\u00ebs t\u00eb tre rretheve. Po ashtu vlen p\u00ebr t\u2019u p\u00ebrmendur rasti i \u201cHarri Fultzit\u201d Tiran\u00eb, ku ceremonia p\u00ebr ndarjen e diplomave \u00ebsht\u00eb e ngjashme me ato universiteteve, meq\u00eb dhe aty njer\u00ebzit marrin profesione; ka pse t\u00eb g\u00ebzoj\u00eb matura e k\u00ebsaj shkolle profesionale, pasi 20 p\u00ebrqind e maturant\u00ebve t\u00eb saj studiojn\u00eb n\u00eb universitetet m\u00eb t\u00eb mir\u00eb t\u00eb SHBA dhe Europ\u00ebs. Edhe shkolla t\u00eb tjera kan\u00eb treguar klas n\u00eb ceremoni t\u00eb tilla, n\u00eb Shkod\u00ebr, Elbasan etj. Ashtu si shkolla e mesme ekonomike \u201cIsa Boletini\u201d n\u00eb Podujev\u00eb, q\u00eb ve\u00e7 t\u00eb tjerash kishte sjell\u00eb nj\u00eb k\u00ebng\u00eb kushtuar matur\u00ebs. Nuk \u00ebsht\u00eb nj\u00eb gj\u00eb mbyllja e matur\u00ebs si provime dhe nj\u00eb gj\u00eb tjet\u00ebr \u201cMbr\u00ebmja e Matur\u00ebs\u201d si d\u00ebfrim, ku n\u00eb k\u00ebt\u00eb t\u00eb fundit q\u00ebllon q\u00eb shkolla vete e ftuar nga maturant\u00ebt, tashm\u00eb t\u00eb \u201cpavarur\u201d!?<\/p>\n<p>Shkolla dhe k\u00ebtu duhet t\u00eb krijoj\u00eb modele t\u00eb koh\u00ebs, por ato nuk arrihen pa vizion modern e vullnet p\u00ebr t\u00eb ndryshuar pozitivisht. Kemi p\u00ebrgjegj\u00ebsi v\u00eb\u00e7an\u00ebrisht ne, edukator\u00ebt, q\u00eb na ra p\u00ebr \u201cbarr\u00eb\u201d nj\u00eb rini e dh\u00ebn\u00eb jo pak pas qejfit, dukut, ku \u00ebsht\u00eb venitur modestia dhe p\u00ebrkorja, virtyte jo vet\u00ebm t\u00eb tradit\u00ebs son\u00eb, por t\u00eb \u00e7do qytet\u00ebrimi. Mbr\u00ebmja e Matur\u00ebs \u00ebsht\u00eb nj\u00eb dukuri q\u00eb p\u00ebrfshin 40.000 maturant\u00eb, prind\u00ebrit, m\u00ebsuesit etj. Institucionet e edukimit kan\u00eb gjith\u00eb tagrin dhe mund\u00ebsit\u00eb t\u00eb ndikojn\u00eb n\u00eb b\u00ebrjen e m\u00eb t\u00eb mir\u00ebs p\u00ebr fest\u00ebn e maturant\u00ebve, mjaft q\u00eb kjo t\u00eb shihet si nj\u00eb projekt qytetarie, q\u00eb, n\u00eb nj\u00eb m\u00ebnyr\u00eb a n\u00eb nj\u00eb tjet\u00ebr, ta p\u00ebrmbaj\u00eb kontekstin shqiptar, \u00e7ka deri diku e v\u00ebren n\u00eb shkollat e Kosov\u00ebs etj. Nuk \u00ebsht\u00eb fjala p\u00ebr t\u00eb shkuar me xhublet\u00eb e fustanell\u00eb n\u00eb mbr\u00ebmjet e matur\u00ebs, por as p\u00ebr t\u00eb imituar tendencat kinse moderne, q\u00eb shoq\u00ebria globale nuk i ka b\u00ebr\u00eb t\u00eb vetat, por i sheh si kalimtare.<\/p>\n","protected":false},"excerpt":{"rendered":"<p>NDUE DEDAJ &nbsp; Jemi n\u00eb maj dhe p\u00ebrgatitjet p\u00ebr \u201cMbr\u00ebmjen e Matur\u00ebs\u201d kan\u00eb filluar, q\u00eb sa vjen e b\u00ebhen m\u00eb t\u00eb ethshme.<\/p>\n","protected":false},"author":1,"featured_media":5906,"comment_status":"open","ping_status":"open","sticky":false,"template":"","format":"standard","meta":{"footnotes":""},"categories":[11],"tags":[],"class_list":["post-6075","post","type-post","status-publish","format-standard","has-post-thumbnail","hentry","category-publicistike"],"_links":{"self":[{"href":"https:\/\/revistakuvendi.org\/index.php?rest_route=\/wp\/v2\/posts\/6075","targetHints":{"allow":["GET"]}}],"collection":[{"href":"https:\/\/revistakuvendi.org\/index.php?rest_route=\/wp\/v2\/posts"}],"about":[{"href":"https:\/\/revistakuvendi.org\/index.php?rest_route=\/wp\/v2\/types\/post"}],"author":[{"embeddable":true,"href":"https:\/\/revistakuvendi.org\/index.php?rest_route=\/wp\/v2\/users\/1"}],"replies":[{"embeddable":true,"href":"https:\/\/revistakuvendi.org\/index.php?rest_route=%2Fwp%2Fv2%2Fcomments&post=6075"}],"version-history":[{"count":1,"href":"https:\/\/revistakuvendi.org\/index.php?rest_route=\/wp\/v2\/posts\/6075\/revisions"}],"predecessor-version":[{"id":6076,"href":"https:\/\/revistakuvendi.org\/index.php?rest_route=\/wp\/v2\/posts\/6075\/revisions\/6076"}],"wp:featuredmedia":[{"embeddable":true,"href":"https:\/\/revistakuvendi.org\/index.php?rest_route=\/wp\/v2\/media\/5906"}],"wp:attachment":[{"href":"https:\/\/revistakuvendi.org\/index.php?rest_route=%2Fwp%2Fv2%2Fmedia&parent=6075"}],"wp:term":[{"taxonomy":"category","embeddable":true,"href":"https:\/\/revistakuvendi.org\/index.php?rest_route=%2Fwp%2Fv2%2Fcategories&post=6075"},{"taxonomy":"post_tag","embeddable":true,"href":"https:\/\/revistakuvendi.org\/index.php?rest_route=%2Fwp%2Fv2%2Ftags&post=6075"}],"curies":[{"name":"wp","href":"https:\/\/api.w.org\/{rel}","templated":true}]}}