{"id":4919,"date":"2015-02-03T00:25:18","date_gmt":"2015-02-03T00:25:18","guid":{"rendered":"http:\/\/revistakuvendi.org\/?p=4919"},"modified":"2015-02-03T00:25:18","modified_gmt":"2015-02-03T00:25:18","slug":"tribuja-jone-e-dhunshme","status":"publish","type":"post","link":"https:\/\/revistakuvendi.org\/?p=4919","title":{"rendered":"TRIBUJA JON\u00cb E DHUNSHME"},"content":{"rendered":"<p><em>(Nga shkolla e Bajz\u00ebs te rrug\u00ebt e Prishtin\u00ebs!&#8230;)<\/em><\/p>\n<p>&nbsp;<\/p>\n<p>NDUE DEDAJ<\/p>\n<p>&nbsp;<\/p>\n<p>S\u2019thuhet m\u00eb kot q\u00ebllimi e justifikon mjetin. Nuk \u00ebsht\u00eb asnj\u00ebher\u00eb e p\u00ebrligjur q\u00eb nx\u00ebn\u00ebsi t\u00eb filmoj\u00eb m\u00ebsuesin e tij me \u201ckam\u00ebr t\u00eb fsheht\u00eb\u201d, madje ky do t\u00eb ishte nj\u00eb gjest i nd\u00ebshkuesh\u00ebm nga komisioni i disiplin\u00ebs i shkoll\u00ebs,<!--more--> por kur zbulohet p\u00ebrmes k\u00ebtij veprimi nj\u00eb sjellje e palejueshme e m\u00ebsuesit, at\u00ebher\u00eb dakord q\u00eb funksionoi dhe k\u00ebshtu, meq\u00eb ndryshe nuk do t\u00eb merrej vesh nj\u00eb e v\u00ebrtet\u00eb shqet\u00ebsuese. Nuk do t\u00eb ngrihej n\u00eb k\u00ebmb\u00eb Ministria, opinioni, mediat, nuk do t\u00eb gj\u00ebmonin studiot televizive. Mbase personazhi q\u00eb befas u ndodh n\u00eb epiqend\u00ebr t\u00eb furtun\u00ebs mori m\u00eb shum\u00eb z\u00eb nga sa mund t\u00eb mendohej &#8211; kishte patur krisma nga nx\u00ebns\u00ebsit n\u00eb shkoll\u00eb dhe nuk ishte b\u00ebr\u00eb kaq \u201czhurm\u00eb\u201d, &#8211; po fundja dhe k\u00ebshtu mir\u00eb, pasi po nuk u ndalem rast pas rasti asgj\u00eb nuk kemi v\u00ebn\u00eb n\u00eb vij\u00eb. Ne nuk jemi nga ata q\u00eb i bie pragut t\u00eb d\u00ebgjoj\u00eb dera, ne e duam t\u00eb na thuhen tro\u00e7 dhe fort gjerat. Flasim gjith\u00eb dit\u00ebn p\u00ebr dhun\u00ebn n\u00eb shkolla, por ama n\u00eb p\u00ebrgjith\u00ebsi dhe pa raste konkrete, pasi po p\u00ebrmende shembuj t\u00eb gjen belaja me koleg\u00ebt, nx\u00ebn\u00ebsit dhe familjar\u00ebt e tyre. Ishte e dukomentuar shuplaka e Bajz\u00ebs, q\u00eb \u00e7oi pesh\u00eb nj\u00eb shoq\u00ebri t\u00eb t\u00ebr\u00eb duke mos l\u00ebn\u00eb vend p\u00ebr justifikim, pa ndryshe zor se mund t\u00eb diskutohej. Kush ta jep t\u00eb drejt\u00ebn ty t\u00eb m\u00eb b\u00ebsh objekt mua? Qofsh drejtori e shkoll\u00ebs, sh\u00ebrbim psiko-social etj. Po ti more zot\u00ebri, a zonj\u00eb e ke b\u00ebr\u00eb vet\u00eb objekt veten p\u00ebrderisa ngre dor\u00ebn mbi nx\u00ebn\u00ebsin t\u00ebnd n\u00eb mes tridhjet\u00eb vetash. Ndaj rroft\u00eb teknologjia q\u00eb i nxjerr n\u00eb shesh disa t\u00eb palara q\u00eb nuk do t\u00eb kishin dal\u00eb ndryshe. Kamerat kan\u00eb evidentuar raste dhun\u00eb deri n\u00eb Kuvendin e Shqip\u00ebris\u00eb, n\u00eb stadiumet e futbollit, pa folur p\u00ebr protestat e ndryshme ku dhuna mes policis\u00eb dhe protestuesve ka qen\u00eb e nd\u00ebrsjellt\u00eb deri n\u00eb krim. E v\u00ebren k\u00ebt\u00eb n\u00eb Kosov\u00eb, n\u00eb protestat e fundit, n\u00eb Maqedoni, Serbi etj., \u00e7ka do t\u00eb thot\u00eb se \u201ctribuja\u201d jon\u00eb ballkanike ende nuk ka shp\u00ebtuar nga dhuna dhe nuk dihet kur do t\u00eb shp\u00ebtoj\u00eb.<\/p>\n<p>Nuk ka qeliz\u00eb t\u00eb shoq\u00ebris\u00eb ku dhuna nuk \u00ebsht\u00eb problem i dor\u00ebs s\u00eb par\u00eb. \u00cbsht\u00eb kthyer n\u00eb epidemi dhunimi sistematik i grave nga burrat, p\u00ebr \u00e7ka krimi n\u00eb familje n\u00eb dhjet\u00ebvje\u00e7arin e fundit rri n\u00eb krye t\u00eb list\u00ebs. P\u00ebrdit\u00eb ka denoncime n\u00eb Polici, marrje n\u00eb mbrojtje t\u00eb grave me urdh\u00ebr gjykate, por padyshim pjesa m\u00eb e madhe e dhun\u00ebs n\u00eb familje p\u00ebrjetohet n\u00eb heshtje nga grat\u00eb, p\u00ebr t\u00eb mos i dal\u00eb nami familjes, p\u00ebr hir t\u00eb f\u00ebmij\u00ebve etj. Papun\u00ebsia e ka rritur agresivitetin e burrave ndaj grave, t\u00eb cil\u00ebt shpesh ngush\u00ebllimin e gjejn\u00eb te gota si n\u00eb novel\u00ebzat e trishta migjeniane. K\u00ebrkohen rrug\u00ebdalje, media si pushtet i kat\u00ebrt duket se \u00ebsht\u00eb m\u00eb i forti pushtet n\u00eb k\u00ebt\u00eb mes. \u00cbsht\u00eb e lavd\u00ebrueshme puna e disa gazetar\u00ebve n\u00eb emisionet e drejtp\u00ebrdrejta me njer\u00ebzit n\u00eb fokus, ku b\u00ebhen ballafaqime mes pal\u00ebve n\u00eb konflikt, n\u00eb prani t\u00eb avokatit, psikologut etj. Pa l\u00ebn\u00eb m\u00ebnjan\u00eb veprimtarin\u00eb institucionale t\u00eb Avokatit t\u00eb Popullit, raporti i fundi i t\u00eb cilit p\u00ebr mbrojtjen e grave nga dhuna u diskutua n\u00eb n\u00ebnkomisionin parlamentar p\u00ebrkat\u00ebs, p\u00ebr \u00e7\u00ebshtjet e\u00a0t\u00eb miturve, barazis\u00eb gjinore dhe\u00a0<em>dhun\u00ebs n\u00eb <\/em>familje. Na duhet t\u00eb shohim dhe n\u00eb sjelljen ton\u00eb politike p\u00ebr ta kuptuar pse ka kaq shum\u00eb dhun\u00eb. Politika konfliktuale ka prodhuar politikan\u00eb fjal\u00ebr\u00ebnd\u00eb dhe foltore goj\u00ebk\u00ebqia. Di\u00e7ka ka nisur t\u00eb ndryshoj\u00eb, ka nj\u00eb gjuh\u00eb disi m\u00eb t\u00eb moderuar, po kjo nuk do t\u00eb thot\u00eb se \u00ebsht\u00eb harruar zakoni i vjet\u00ebr. \u00cbsht\u00eb e provuar se sa m\u00eb kapri\u00e7oze t\u00eb jen\u00eb situatat politike, aq m\u00eb shp\u00ebrthyese b\u00ebhen \u201cmasat popullore\u201d n\u00eb baz\u00eb, shtohen jo vet\u00ebm rruga\u00e7\u00ebrit\u00eb n\u00eb publik, po dhe vjedhjet, grabitjet, dalin n\u00eb rrug\u00eb maskat. Dhuna agravon p\u00ebrnj\u00ebher\u00ebsh, gj\u00eb q\u00eb tregon se stabiliteti social, si\u00e7 na p\u00eblqen ta quajm\u00eb, ende tronditet leht\u00eb, si\u00e7 nuk ndodh n\u00eb shoq\u00ebrit\u00eb e pjekura n\u00eb Europ\u00eb etj.<\/p>\n<p>Dy jan\u00eb shpalimet e dhun\u00ebs, ajo e \u201cpadukshme\u201d n\u00eb sht\u00ebpi, shkolla e t\u00eb tjer\u00eb dhe ajo publike n\u00eb sheshe e bulevarde, ku thyhen xhama e shkulen pllaka p\u00ebr t\u00eb gjuajtur skafandrat e policis\u00eb si t\u00eb jen\u00eb parzmore hordhish armike. Dhe e gjitha kjo n\u00eb em\u00ebr t\u00eb demokracis\u00eb(!) Ky \u00ebsht\u00eb paradoksi, keqkuptimi i madh, pre e t\u00eb cilit ka r\u00ebn\u00eb dhe Kosova, duke e sh\u00ebtitur dhun\u00ebn nga nj\u00ebri shesh i kryeqytetit n\u00eb tjetrin, nj\u00eb her\u00eb n\u00eb tri dit\u00eb. Se cili \u00ebsht\u00eb q\u00ebllimi i ultimatumit t\u00eb opozit\u00ebs, o sot shkarkimi i ministrit serb n\u00eb qeverin\u00eb e Kosov\u00ebs, djalosharit t\u00eb gabuesh\u00ebm Jabllanovi\u00e7, o ne i v\u00ebm\u00eb \u201czjarrin\u201d Prishtin\u00ebs, k\u00ebt\u00eb mund ta shpjegoj\u00eb vrt\u00ebm lideri i gabuar i Vet\u00ebvendosjes dhe ish-Kryeministri i paduruar, fitimtar i Hag\u00ebs po jo dhe i zgjedhjeve n\u00eb Kosov\u00eb. Inati hakmarr\u00ebs i tyre me Hashim Tha\u00e7in nuk \u00ebsht\u00eb kurr\u00ebsesi argument p\u00ebr t\u00eb marshuar dhuna n\u00ebp\u00ebr Prishtin\u00eb duke u gjakosur polic\u00ebt k\u00ebt\u00eb dim\u00ebr. \u00cbsht\u00eb e pafalshme p\u00ebr politikan\u00ebt me buz\u00ebqeshje cinike d\u00ebmtimi i policis\u00eb dhe p\u00ebrdorja e saj p\u00ebr interesa politike. Kurr\u00eb mos u beft\u00eb ajo politik\u00eb q\u00eb sulmon njer\u00ebzit me uniform\u00eb, q\u00eb nuk mund t\u00eb dhunohen p\u00ebr shkak se turmat shkojn\u00eb pas m\u00eb t\u00eb fortit. Kjo tregon se ende i fort\u00eb nuk \u00ebsht\u00eb ligji, as n\u00eb Prishtin\u00eb, as n\u00eb Tiran\u00eb, por politika me tipare tribuje. P\u00ebrligjia e dhun\u00ebs ndaj institucioneve me t\u00eb drejt\u00ebn e protest\u00ebs \u00ebsht\u00eb absurde dhe ndoshta ka ardhur koha q\u00eb kjo t\u00eb kufizohet, p\u00ebrderisa t\u00eb nj\u00ebjt\u00ebn arm\u00eb p\u00ebrdor dhe terrorizmi. Rasti i Parisit flet qart\u00eb. Nj\u00eb qeveri dhe mund t\u00eb rr\u00ebzohet me protesta, por kur ta ket\u00eb mbushur kup\u00ebn e jo kur ende t\u00eb mos e ket\u00eb at\u00eb. Jo rast\u00ebsisht n\u00ebnat kosovare u t\u00ebrhoq\u00ebn pas dhun\u00ebs s\u00eb dit\u00ebs s\u00eb par\u00eb n\u00eb protest\u00ebn e prir\u00eb prej tyre, pasi ato e kuptuan se agjenda e politik\u00ebs ishte tjet\u00ebr nga ajo e reagimit t\u00eb tyre ndaj fyerjes q\u00eb iu b\u00ebri ministri serb. Kjo \u00ebsht\u00eb dhe tradita shqiptare, ku gruaja e ka frenuar dhun\u00ebn, ka ulur pushk\u00ebt e ngrehura, ka falur e pajtuar, ndon\u00ebse vet\u00eb viktima kryesore e dhun\u00ebs.<\/p>\n<p>Shoq\u00ebria shqiptare sot fjal\u00ebn m\u00eb t\u00eb lakueshme ka dhun\u00ebn, si shoq\u00ebri dhunuese dhe e dhunuar. \u00cbsht\u00eb mir\u00eb q\u00eb i p\u00ebrmendim tiparet e rac\u00ebs e nganj\u00ebher\u00eb dhe mburremi me to, si trim\u00ebria civile, solidariteti, humanizmi, por ato tashm\u00eb sikur i kemi vet\u00ebm p\u00ebr muze. Sjelljet e sotme nuk e tregojn\u00eb virtytin. Ndaj duhet th\u00ebn\u00eb fat q\u00eb kemi k\u00ebt\u00eb teknologji, q\u00eb mund t\u00eb xhirojm\u00eb \u201cfilmin\u201d e m\u00ebsuesit q\u00eb rreh, t\u00eb hajdutit q\u00eb vjedh nat\u00ebn dyqanet, t\u00eb policit q\u00eb b\u00ebn sikur nuk sheh kur di\u00e7ka ndodh pran\u00eb vendit ku ai kryen sh\u00ebrbimin. Kamera e fsheht\u00eb ka ikur nga q\u00ebllimi arg\u00ebtues me \u00a0grackat e ngritura artist\u00ebve e sportist\u00ebve, duke u v\u00ebn\u00eb n\u00eb sh\u00ebrbim t\u00eb nevojtarit, p\u00ebr ta mbrojtur at\u00eb nga dhuna. P\u00ebrfytyroni shoqatat dhe zonjat e tyre m\u00eb laptope q\u00eb kumtojn\u00eb p\u00ebr dhun\u00ebn, zonjat deputete q\u00eb solidarizohen p\u00ebr k\u00ebt\u00eb q\u00ebllim, protestat n\u00eb Shkod\u00ebr e peligrinazhet n\u00eb Peshkopi, me z\u00eb dhe me pankarta p\u00ebr t\u00eb drejtat e njeriut dhe lirit\u00eb themelore t\u00eb tij dhe zhvleft\u00ebsimin e gjith\u00eb k\u00ebsaj nga dora q\u00eb ngrihet, shuplaka e prindit mbi f\u00ebmij\u00ebn, e burrit mbi gruan, e m\u00ebsuesit mbi nx\u00ebn\u00ebsin, e pronarit mbi t\u00eb pun\u00ebsuarin q\u00eb nuk i paguan sigurimet shoq\u00ebrore, e policit mbi qytetarin e pafajsh\u00ebm. Mos u habisni, edhe n\u00eb kopshtin e f\u00ebmij\u00ebve ka dhun\u00eb dhe kjo \u00ebsht\u00eb m\u00eb e renda, pasi do t\u00eb thot\u00eb se ajo z\u00eb fill aty ku fillon jeta. Nj\u00eb kurb\u00eb e t\u00ebr\u00eb nga dhuna gojore e emocionale t\u00eb dhuna kriminale.<\/p>\n<p>Institucione prestigjoze kan\u00eb kryer studime e vrojtime komb\u00ebtare mbi dhun\u00ebn n\u00eb Shqip\u00ebri me baz\u00eb popullat\u00ebn, kan\u00eb b\u00ebr\u00eb analiza e dal\u00eb me p\u00ebrfundime, si nj\u00eb studim i vlefsh\u00ebm i nj\u00eb viti e ca m\u00eb par\u00eb, fryt i bashk\u00ebpunimit t\u00eb ngusht\u00eb midis Institutit t\u00eb Statistikave t\u00eb Shqip\u00ebris\u00eb (INSTAT) dhe Programit p\u00ebr Zhvillim t\u00eb Kombeve t\u00eb Bashkuara (UNDP), me mb\u00ebshtetjen financiare t\u00eb qeveris\u00eb s\u00eb Suedis\u00eb. Por kush ua ka ngen\u00eb atyre? Kuvendi i Shqip\u00ebris\u00eb, bazuar n\u00eb dokumente t\u00ebtilla serioze mund t\u00eb marr\u00eb nisma ligjore dobiprur\u00ebse parandaluese, por dhe sensibilizuese t\u00eb m\u00ebtejshme. Studimi i sip\u00ebrth\u00ebn\u00eb, q\u00eb nuk \u00ebsht\u00eb i vetmi i k\u00ebsaj natyre, e vrojton situat\u00ebn e dhun\u00ebs dhe n\u00eb vitin 2007 dhe n\u00eb vitin 2013, duke e krijuar t\u00eb plot\u00eb panoram\u00ebn e asaj \u00e7far\u00eb ndodh n\u00eb shoq\u00ebrin\u00eb ton\u00eb t\u00eb tronditur nga kjo dukuri.<\/p>\n<p>P\u00ebr t\u2019u kthyer te rasti me t\u00eb cilin e nis\u00ebm shkrimin, ka vend p\u00ebr reflektim nga t\u00eb gjith\u00eb, prind\u00ebrit e m\u00ebsuesit, q\u00eb ndonj\u00ebher\u00eb p\u00ebrpiqen ta p\u00ebrligjin dhun\u00ebn. \u00cbsht\u00eb dob\u00ebsia e tyre kur f\u00ebmija arrin t\u00eb thot\u00eb se m\u00ebsuesi p\u00ebr t\u00eb mir\u00ebn ton\u00eb na e shkul veshin apo na q\u00ebllon me shpull\u00eb (!) Kjo \u00ebsht\u00eb m\u00eb e pafalshme se vet\u00eb dhuna, pasi \u00ebsht\u00eb manipulim i nd\u00ebrgjegjes s\u00eb lir\u00eb e n\u00eb formim t\u00eb nj\u00eb f\u00ebmije. Po i m\u00ebsuam famij\u00ebt ta pranojn\u00eb dhun\u00ebn si nj\u00eb t\u00eb keqe t\u00eb domosdoshme dhe quajn\u00eb t\u00eb mir\u00ebqen\u00eb ndaj tyre, edhe nes\u00ebr do t\u00eb kemi nj\u00eb shoq\u00ebri t\u00eb p\u00ebrshkuar nga dhuna.<\/p>\n<p>Jo rast\u00ebsisht iu qasem k\u00ebshtu k\u00ebsaj teme, duke e paraqitur \u201cgjith\u00ebp\u00ebrfshir\u00ebse\u201d, por ngaq\u00eb p\u00ebr fat t\u00eb keq ajo k\u00ebshtu rezulton sot nd\u00ebr ne, nga nj\u00eb klas\u00eb e vog\u00ebl shkolle te salla e madhe e Kuvendit, nga nj\u00eb shesh fshati te sheshi para Kryeministris\u00eb n\u00eb Tiran\u00eb, Prishtin\u00eb, Shkup etj. Dhuna \u00ebsht\u00eb e nj\u00ebjt\u00eb, vet\u00ebm aktor\u00ebt e saj ndryshojn\u00eb&#8230;<\/p>\n<p>&nbsp;<\/p>\n","protected":false},"excerpt":{"rendered":"<p>(Nga shkolla e Bajz\u00ebs te rrug\u00ebt e Prishtin\u00ebs!&#8230;) &nbsp; NDUE DEDAJ &nbsp; S\u2019thuhet m\u00eb kot q\u00ebllimi e justifikon mjetin. Nuk \u00ebsht\u00eb asnj\u00ebher\u00eb e p\u00ebrligjur q\u00eb nx\u00ebn\u00ebsi t\u00eb filmoj\u00eb m\u00ebsuesin e tij me \u201ckam\u00ebr t\u00eb fsheht\u00eb\u201d, madje ky do t\u00eb ishte nj\u00eb gjest i nd\u00ebshkuesh\u00ebm nga komisioni i disiplin\u00ebs i shkoll\u00ebs,<\/p>\n","protected":false},"author":1,"featured_media":4539,"comment_status":"open","ping_status":"open","sticky":false,"template":"","format":"standard","meta":{"footnotes":""},"categories":[3],"tags":[],"class_list":["post-4919","post","type-post","status-publish","format-standard","has-post-thumbnail","hentry","category-politike"],"_links":{"self":[{"href":"https:\/\/revistakuvendi.org\/index.php?rest_route=\/wp\/v2\/posts\/4919","targetHints":{"allow":["GET"]}}],"collection":[{"href":"https:\/\/revistakuvendi.org\/index.php?rest_route=\/wp\/v2\/posts"}],"about":[{"href":"https:\/\/revistakuvendi.org\/index.php?rest_route=\/wp\/v2\/types\/post"}],"author":[{"embeddable":true,"href":"https:\/\/revistakuvendi.org\/index.php?rest_route=\/wp\/v2\/users\/1"}],"replies":[{"embeddable":true,"href":"https:\/\/revistakuvendi.org\/index.php?rest_route=%2Fwp%2Fv2%2Fcomments&post=4919"}],"version-history":[{"count":1,"href":"https:\/\/revistakuvendi.org\/index.php?rest_route=\/wp\/v2\/posts\/4919\/revisions"}],"predecessor-version":[{"id":4920,"href":"https:\/\/revistakuvendi.org\/index.php?rest_route=\/wp\/v2\/posts\/4919\/revisions\/4920"}],"wp:featuredmedia":[{"embeddable":true,"href":"https:\/\/revistakuvendi.org\/index.php?rest_route=\/wp\/v2\/media\/4539"}],"wp:attachment":[{"href":"https:\/\/revistakuvendi.org\/index.php?rest_route=%2Fwp%2Fv2%2Fmedia&parent=4919"}],"wp:term":[{"taxonomy":"category","embeddable":true,"href":"https:\/\/revistakuvendi.org\/index.php?rest_route=%2Fwp%2Fv2%2Fcategories&post=4919"},{"taxonomy":"post_tag","embeddable":true,"href":"https:\/\/revistakuvendi.org\/index.php?rest_route=%2Fwp%2Fv2%2Ftags&post=4919"}],"curies":[{"name":"wp","href":"https:\/\/api.w.org\/{rel}","templated":true}]}}