{"id":4871,"date":"2014-12-31T18:17:45","date_gmt":"2014-12-31T18:17:45","guid":{"rendered":"http:\/\/revistakuvendi.org\/?p=4871"},"modified":"2014-12-31T18:17:45","modified_gmt":"2014-12-31T18:17:45","slug":"une-muslimanja-qe-festova-krishtlindjet","status":"publish","type":"post","link":"https:\/\/revistakuvendi.org\/?p=4871","title":{"rendered":"Un\u00eb Muslimanja, q\u00eb festova Krishtlindjet!"},"content":{"rendered":"<p><strong>Nga: Qendres\u00eb Halili<\/strong><\/p>\n<p>&nbsp;<\/p>\n<p>Prej se kam ardhur n\u00eb Amerik\u00eb kam m\u00ebsuar shum\u00eb gj\u00ebra, q\u00eb shpesh me veten habitem se si s\u2019i kisha ditur m\u00eb par\u00eb. Njohje t\u00eb reja, takime t\u00eb reja, p\u00ebrvoja t\u00eb reja,<!--more--> njer\u00ebz t\u00eb rinj\u00eb, biles m\u00eb duket se edhe vet jam b\u00eb krejt e re,(\u00a0 ti\u00a0 te\u00a0 isha\u00a0 rikrijuar) ani se k\u00ebtu i mbusha 24vjet te\u00a0 lindjes. Kam njohur veten m\u00eb shum\u00eb sesa kisha menduar q\u00eb e njoh, karakterin tim, dhe vet nd\u00ebrtimin tim si Q\u00ebndres\u00eb s\u00eb bashku me personalitetin. Ndoshta, si\u00e7 e kam shkruar edhe m\u00eb pare, tani kam takuar \u00a0engjullin tim mbrojt\u00ebs dhe gj\u00ebrat e mira po vijn\u00eb si me t\u00eb pikur nga qielli. Amerika, ky engjulli im qysh prej \u00a0f\u00ebmij\u00ebris\u00eb!<\/p>\n<p>Ka nj\u00eb muaj e gjys\u00ebm q\u00eb po q\u00ebndroj te sht\u00ebpia e Pjeter Jakut (publicist dhe botuesi i revistes \u201cKuvendi\u201d Detroit), bashkshortes s\u00eb tij, zonj\u00ebs, poetes s\u00eb madhe shqiptare Elinda Marku, si dhe vajz\u00eb s\u00eb tyre Mara Jaku (f\u00ebmija m\u00eb intelegjent dhe i zgjuar q\u00eb kam par\u00eb ndonj\u00ebher\u00eb). Te kjo familje katolike, pra e besimit t\u00eb \u201ckund\u00ebrt\u201d nga imi dhe familjes sime, atij musliman.<\/p>\n<p>Kur kam ardhur k\u00ebtu s`kam k\u00ebrkuar as musliman e as katolik. Kam k\u00ebrkuar vet\u00ebm shqiptar, ama \u00e7udi \u00ebsht\u00eb se deren time e hapi vet\u00ebm katoliku (duke mos harruar ato dhjet\u00eb dit\u00eb q\u00eb isha te familja e shokut t\u00eb babit, Milazim Zeneli q\u00eb i p\u00ebrket besimit musliman). E di se me borgj a detyrim asgj\u00eb e mir\u00eb dhe njerzore s`b\u00ebhet, andaj k\u00ebtu e kam edhe vemendjen.<\/p>\n<p>Vjen nj\u00eb vajz\u00eb 23 vje\u00e7are nga Kosova, e vetme, pa askend k\u00ebtu, p\u00ebrve\u00e7 (ftuesit Pjetrit dhe Elindes q\u00eb k\u00ebtu i kam njoftuar) dhe asnj\u00eb v\u00eblla a mot\u00ebr, se paku i\/e besimit t\u00eb shenjt\u00eb musliman\u00a0 nuk ma hap der\u00ebn p\u00ebr t\u00eb m\u00eb pranuar si mot\u00ebr shqiptare e nj\u00eb e re nga Kosova, bile as hoxha i k\u00ebtuhit (q\u00eb s`ja mbajta mend emrin), por q\u00eb shpreha d\u00ebshir\u00eb nj\u00eb dit\u00eb ta takoja, e q\u00eb kur e takova fjal\u00ebt e para t\u00eb tij ishin se un\u00eb duhet t\u00eb kthehesha n\u00eb Kosov\u00eb dhe se Amerika s`ishte vend p\u00ebr mua e as nuk kishte mund\u00ebsi p\u00ebr mua. Takova edhe sekretarin e tij, edhe gruan e tij pas nj\u00eb jave. I thash por ti pse po rri k\u00ebtu, kur Amerika s`ka vend p\u00ebr mua. Edhe ti je musliman, bile je edhe hoxh\u00eb. Dikur ai u pajtua dhe tha se do t`i shihte mund\u00ebsit\u00eb te me ndihmonte. Prita me jav\u00eb t\u00eb t\u00ebra dhe hoxha s`u lajm\u00ebrua, as sekretari, as gruaja.Ende jo,\u00a0 deri\u00a0 tani! Hoxha q\u00eb e diti cilit besim un\u00eb i p\u00ebrkas, ciles familja e\u00a0 familja\u00a0 ime\u00a0 cilit\u00a0 besim.E\u00a0 pra,\u00a0 sipas\u00a0 besimit, une\u00a0 e\u00a0 hoxha\u00a0 I \u00a0perkasim\u00a0 te\u00a0 njejtes\u00a0 familje, asaj mulsimane!. Hoxha e diti q\u00eb un\u00eb kurr\u00eb s`i kam festuar Krishtlindjet, s`i kisha ditur as s`i festohen (ani pse gjithmon\u00eb m\u00eb kishte interesuar dhe kisha qen\u00eb kurioze sic\u00a0 per\u00a0 secilen\u00a0 feste te secilit\u00a0 besim). \u00a0Prej\u00a0 se\u00a0 une e\u00a0 di\u00a0 dhe e ndjej\u00a0 se\u00a0 jam\u00a0 ne\u00a0 paqe\u00a0 me\u00a0 secilen\u00a0 fe, me secilin\u00a0 besim. Cka kisha pritur, prej\u00a0 Hoxhes ndoshta, \u00a0ishte vet\u00ebm t\u00eb m\u00eb b\u00ebnte, s\u00eb paku nj\u00eb telefonat\u00eb. Se paku\u00a0 te\u00a0 me\u00a0 thoshte, te\u00a0 me pyeste,: \u00a0Q\u00ebndres\u00eb, meqe ndoshta kurr\u00eb nuk i ke festuar Krisht\u00eblindjet dhe meqe ketu\u00a0 ne\u00a0 usa \u00a0je e \u00a0ftuar\u00a0 dhe\u00a0 e\u00a0 perkrahur prej \u00a0nj\u00eb familje katolike, e\u00a0 meq\u00eb nuk pata tjet\u00ebr mund\u00ebsi me t\u00eb ndihmu, t\u00eb pakt\u00ebn \u00e7ka mund t\u00eb b\u00ebj\u00a0 si hoxh\u00eb, si\u00a0 shqiptar dhe\u00a0 si\u00a0 prind, tek\u00a0 e\u00a0 fundit\u00a0 meqe\u00a0 une\u00a0 bashke\u00a0 me\u00a0 familjen time e \u00a0p\u00ebr hir\u2019 t\u00eb besimit ton\u00eb, te\u00a0 ftojme \u00a0\u00a0sonte te\u00a0 pakten \u00a0n\u00eb sht\u00ebpin\u00eb ton\u00eb, n\u00eb m\u00ebnyr\u00eb q\u00eb t\u00eb mos ndjehesh keq as ti si muslimane e as katolik\u00ebt n\u00eb fest\u00ebn e tyre. N\u00ebse qenka ky m\u00ebkat s`besoj q\u00eb hoxha i toleron dhe i le t\u00eb rinj\u00ebt e fes\u00eb s\u00eb tyre me b\u00eb m\u00ebkate t\u00eb tilla?! Habitem se si, s`i erdhi keq p\u00ebr mua,si\u00a0 nuk\u00a0 u\u00a0 shqetesu \u00a0se un\u00eb, mund t\u00eb ndikohem nga cilido besim q\u00eb do t\u2019m\u00eb afronte, \u00a0ngroht\u00ebsi, bujari, siguri dhe dashuri.<\/p>\n<p>Megjithat\u00eb s\u00eb bashku me familjen Jaku e festuam Nat\u00ebn e Krishtit. Un\u00eb vet e ndihmova Elind\u00ebn t\u00eb gatuanim darken, bleme dhurata e shk\u00ebmbyem mirekuptim, teksa\u00a0 une jo\u00a0 vetem\u00a0 u\u00a0 bana\u00a0 pjese\u00a0 e gezimit\u00a0 te\u00a0 tyre, por\u00a0 edhe\u00a0 u\u00a0 ndjeva si\u00a0 t\u2019i \u00a0kisha\u00a0 vertete njerez\u00a0 krejt\u00a0 te\u00a0 afert, si t\u2019i \u00a0kisha njohur qysh ne\u00a0 fillim te\u00a0 jetes\u00a0 time. E pra,\u00a0 me\u00a0 kete\u00a0 familje\u00a0 mua\u00a0 deri me tash\u00a0 nuk\u00a0 me\u00a0 kish\u00a0 lidhur asnjana\u00a0 prej\u00a0 feve,\u00a0 as\u00a0 ajo\u00a0 katolike as\u00a0 ajo\u00a0 muslimane, por\u00a0 me\u00a0 kish\u00a0 njohur\u00a0 e\u00a0 afruar\u00a0 me\u00a0 to letersia. Uruam njeri\u00a0 tjetrit, i\u00a0 deshiruam \u00a0gjithe shqiptareve te\u00a0 kudogjendur, paqe, dashuri dhe begati . Ne\u00a0 urimet qe u\u00a0 thane ne\u00a0 kete\u00a0 familje,\u00a0 nuk\u00a0 u\u00a0 vecuan katoliket, por\u00a0 perkundrazi ne\u00a0 kete\u00a0 darke\u00a0 e\u00a0 ne\u00a0 kete\u00a0 dolli, urohej\u00a0 per\u00a0 te\u00a0 gjithe\u00a0 njerezit\u00a0 e botes.<\/p>\n<p>&nbsp;<\/p>\n<p>P\u00ebr mua ishte gjith\u00e7ka e re, panjohur dhe interesante.\u00a0 Nuk\u00a0 mund\u00a0 ta\u00a0 fsheh te\u00a0 verteten qe u k\u00ebnaqa shum\u00eb. Tani po e di,dhe po bindem se\u00a0 secila fest\u00eb e ka p\u00ebr q\u00ebllim bashkimin, mir\u00ebsin\u00eb, dhe solidaritetin mes vete.<\/p>\n<p>Katolik\u00ebt nuk qenkan aq t\u00eb k\u00ebqinj\u00eb si\u00e7 kam d\u00ebgjuar. Edhe ata qenkan njer\u00ebz prej mishi, gjaku, paskan ndjenja, shpirt\u00eb. Edhe ata po fliskan gjuh\u00ebn ton\u00eb, kan\u00eb traditat dhe zakonet tona, ushqimet tona, dashuri , bese\u00a0 e\u00a0 miresi. Poashtu me e r\u00ebnd\u00ebsishmja nga t\u00eb gjith\u00eb qenka se edhe ata po besojkan n\u00eb nj\u00eb Zot. N\u00eb nj\u00eb Zot, si ne! Sa shum\u00eb m\u00eb dhemb kjo puna e fes\u00eb tash. Mua\u00a0 e\u00a0 familjen\u00a0 time\u00a0 ne\u00a0 kosove,\u00a0 per\u00a0 mua\u00a0 e\u00a0 per\u00a0 familjen\u00a0 time ketu\u00a0 ku\u00a0 tash\u00a0 per\u00a0 tash\u00a0 jetoj, feja\u00a0 nuk\u00a0 e\u00a0 tejkalon kombin. Feja\u00a0 nuk ndan njeriun\u00a0 prej\u00a0 njeriut, shqiptarin prej\u00a0 shqiptarit. Kurre\u00a0 me\u00a0 pare\u00a0 nuk\u00a0 jam\u00a0 ndje nje\u00a0 shqiptare\u00a0 kaq\u00a0 e\u00a0 plotesueme, sa keto\u00a0 dite, ne\u00a0 kete\u00a0 vend. Le\u00a0 te\u00a0 kete\u00a0 fe\u00a0 me \u00a0dhjetra, per\u00a0 aq\u00a0 kohe\u00a0 sa\u00a0 ka\u00a0 nje\u00a0 Zot,\u00a0 mbi te\u00a0 gjitha\u00a0 fete. E Zoti \u00a0e\u00a0 vertetoj\u00a0 pranine\u00a0 e\u00a0 miresine\u00a0 e\u00a0 tij,\u00a0 pafundesine \u00a0tij, per\u00a0 mua\u00a0 teksa\u00a0 nuk m\u00eb la vet\u00ebm ,\u00a0 nuk\u00a0 m\u00eb braktisi, as\u00a0 kaq\u00a0 larg vendlindjes \u2026!<\/p>\n<p>Nj\u00eb e re 24 vje\u00e7are muslimane, q\u00eb feston Krishtlindjet n\u00eb nj\u00eb familje katolike \u00ebsht\u00eb nje rast, qe\u00a0 nuk\u00a0 e\u00a0 di\u00a0 pse\u00a0 as\u00a0 si, sa kam arritur te marr shum\u00eb mesazhe private, sharje, fyerje, dhe dyshime ose\u00a0 akuza\u00a0 se a e paskam nd\u00ebrruar \u00a0fen\u00eb tone\u00a0 \u00a0apo feja e\u00a0 ketyre \u00a0m\u00eb ka nd\u00ebrruar mua?<\/p>\n<p>Un\u00eb s`po p\u00ebrgjigjem, po ju l\u00eb t\u00eb besoni n\u00eb at\u00eb \u00e7ka doni, t\u00eb lire, pa pranga\u2026!\u00a0 Teksa po\u00a0 I \u00a0lutem Zotit,\u00a0 ne\u00a0 gjuhen\u00a0 time, te\u00a0 mos\u00a0 e\u00a0 ndale\u00a0 dashurine\u00a0 dhe\u00a0 meshiren\u00a0 e\u00a0 tij, as\u00a0 per\u00a0 ato, qe\u00a0 mendojne\u00a0 se\u00a0 duhet\u00a0 te\u00a0 me\u00a0 shajne , paragkykojne, akuzojne, ekzektuojne \u2026!<\/p>\n<p>&nbsp;<\/p>\n<p><strong><em>Detroit,<\/em><\/strong><\/p>\n<p><strong><em>Dec 26.14<\/em><\/strong><\/p>\n<p>&nbsp;<\/p>\n","protected":false},"excerpt":{"rendered":"<p>Nga: Qendres\u00eb Halili &nbsp; Prej se kam ardhur n\u00eb Amerik\u00eb kam m\u00ebsuar shum\u00eb gj\u00ebra, q\u00eb shpesh me veten habitem se si s\u2019i kisha ditur m\u00eb par\u00eb. Njohje t\u00eb reja, takime t\u00eb reja, p\u00ebrvoja t\u00eb reja,<\/p>\n","protected":false},"author":1,"featured_media":4863,"comment_status":"open","ping_status":"open","sticky":false,"template":"","format":"standard","meta":{"footnotes":""},"categories":[11],"tags":[],"class_list":["post-4871","post","type-post","status-publish","format-standard","has-post-thumbnail","hentry","category-publicistike"],"_links":{"self":[{"href":"https:\/\/revistakuvendi.org\/index.php?rest_route=\/wp\/v2\/posts\/4871","targetHints":{"allow":["GET"]}}],"collection":[{"href":"https:\/\/revistakuvendi.org\/index.php?rest_route=\/wp\/v2\/posts"}],"about":[{"href":"https:\/\/revistakuvendi.org\/index.php?rest_route=\/wp\/v2\/types\/post"}],"author":[{"embeddable":true,"href":"https:\/\/revistakuvendi.org\/index.php?rest_route=\/wp\/v2\/users\/1"}],"replies":[{"embeddable":true,"href":"https:\/\/revistakuvendi.org\/index.php?rest_route=%2Fwp%2Fv2%2Fcomments&post=4871"}],"version-history":[{"count":1,"href":"https:\/\/revistakuvendi.org\/index.php?rest_route=\/wp\/v2\/posts\/4871\/revisions"}],"predecessor-version":[{"id":4872,"href":"https:\/\/revistakuvendi.org\/index.php?rest_route=\/wp\/v2\/posts\/4871\/revisions\/4872"}],"wp:featuredmedia":[{"embeddable":true,"href":"https:\/\/revistakuvendi.org\/index.php?rest_route=\/wp\/v2\/media\/4863"}],"wp:attachment":[{"href":"https:\/\/revistakuvendi.org\/index.php?rest_route=%2Fwp%2Fv2%2Fmedia&parent=4871"}],"wp:term":[{"taxonomy":"category","embeddable":true,"href":"https:\/\/revistakuvendi.org\/index.php?rest_route=%2Fwp%2Fv2%2Fcategories&post=4871"},{"taxonomy":"post_tag","embeddable":true,"href":"https:\/\/revistakuvendi.org\/index.php?rest_route=%2Fwp%2Fv2%2Ftags&post=4871"}],"curies":[{"name":"wp","href":"https:\/\/api.w.org\/{rel}","templated":true}]}}