{"id":2849,"date":"2013-05-16T16:41:11","date_gmt":"2013-05-16T16:41:11","guid":{"rendered":"http:\/\/revistakuvendi.org\/?p=2849"},"modified":"2013-05-16T16:41:11","modified_gmt":"2013-05-16T16:41:11","slug":"kur-bene-dasem-malesori-ndizet-vendi","status":"publish","type":"post","link":"https:\/\/revistakuvendi.org\/?p=2849","title":{"rendered":"Kur b\u00ebn\u00eb das\u00ebm mal\u00ebsori – ndizet vendi !"},"content":{"rendered":"
\u00a0\u00a0\u00a0\u00a0\"\"<\/a>Beqir SINA, New York<\/span><\/em><\/span><\/div>\n
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Mbi 800 veta n\u00eb das\u00ebm\u00ebn e Dedvukajt – st\u00ebrnipit t\u00eb kryetrimit DedGjoLulit<\/span> \u00a0 \u00a0 \u00a0 NEW YORK CITY :<\/strong>\u00a0N\u00eb Detroit dhe New York, ku jetojn\u00eb edhe pjesa m\u00eb e madhe e komunitetit shqiptar\u00eb, atyre q\u00eb kan emigruar nga Mal\u00ebsia n\u00eb Amerik\u00eb, das\u00ebmat e mal\u00ebsorve b\u00ebhen madh\u00ebshtore. Das\u00ebma m\u00eb e vog\u00ebl tregojn\u00eb shqiptar\u00ebt e Amerik\u00ebs, e mal\u00ebsor\u00ebve, ka t\u00eb pakt\u00ebn 500 vet\u00eb, dhe, m\u00eb e madhja mbi\u00a01500 vet\u00eb. Kjo, \u00ebsht\u00eb nj\u00eb tradit\u00eb e kahershme e k\u00ebtyre mal\u00ebsor\u00ebve, t\u00eb cil\u00ebt k\u00ebt\u00eb g\u00ebzim e hare, n\u00eb \u00e7do m\u00ebnyr\u00eb duan t’a ndajn\u00eb me t\u00eb gjith\u00eb farefisin e tyre, miqt, shok\u00ebt e dashamir\u00ebt. \u00a0 \u00a0\u00a0 Das\u00ebmor\u00eb nga te gjitha trojet shqiptare nuk mungojn\u00eb n\u00eb k\u00ebto das\u00ebma dhe gazmende, nd\u00ebrsa nuk ka das\u00ebm mal\u00ebsore, pa bajrakun si\u00e7 e quajn ata flamurin kuq e zi. N\u00eb \u00e7do das\u00ebm n\u00eb ball\u00eb t\u00eb saj – q\u00ebndron flamuri Kuqezi dhe ai Amerikan, t\u00eb cilin e mbajn\u00eb dy djelmosha veshur me kostume popullore t\u00eb k\u00ebsaj treve. Pastaj hyn\u00eb \u00e7ifti i ri i shoq\u00ebruar nga \u00e7ifitet e reja t\u00eb veshura bukur dhe plot shije, mes k\u00ebng\u00ebve e valleve dhe f\u00ebmij\u00ebve t\u00eb luleve. \u00a0 \u00a0\u00a0 Nj\u00eb miku im n\u00eb k\u00ebt\u00eb das\u00ebm,\u00a0 m\u00eb tha : “Nese jeni t\u00eb interesuar t\u00eb m\u00ebsoni m\u00eb shum\u00eb rreth das\u00ebmave te mal\u00ebsorve, p\u00ebr t\u00eb par\u00eb nj\u00eb fest\u00eb martes\u00eb t\u00eb v\u00ebrtet\u00eb, ashtu si\u00e7 mund t\u00eb keni d\u00ebgjuar, uroj\u00eb q\u00eb t’ju bie rasti t\u00eb jeni i ftuar n\u00eb nj\u00eb mund\u00ebsi t\u00eb till\u00eb t\u00eb mrekullueshme, si kjo e das\u00ebm\u00ebs, s\u00eb djalit t\u00eb Kol\u00eb Mirit, das\u00ebm tipike e\u00a0mal\u00ebsoreve.” \u00a0 \u00a0\u00a0 Das\u00ebma – Mal\u00ebsore, nis\u00eb qysh nga zbukurimi me simbolet komb\u00ebtare t\u00eb sht\u00ebpis\u00eb, pritjen nga t\u00eb zot\u00ebt e das\u00ebm\u00ebs, prej tek porta,\u00a0gostitjen sipas zakoneve, e rite t\u00eb tjera ku \u00e7do gj\u00eb \u00ebsht\u00eb\u00a0shqiptare. Festa martesore\u00a0vazhdon me ceremonin\u00eb fetare, e cila mbahet\u00a0n\u00eb ambjentet e Kish\u00ebs, n\u00eb Altar, aty\u00a0ku b\u00ebhet bekimi dhe kuror\u00ebzimi i \u00e7iftit. Natyrisht, q\u00eb\u00a0\u00e7do gj\u00eb kulmon n\u00eb mbr\u00ebmje zakonisht, duke e ndezur m\u00eb n\u00eb fund lokalin –\u00a0ku mbahet das\u00ebma . T\u00eb zot\u00ebt e das\u00ebm\u00ebs jan\u00eb ata q\u00eb do t\u00eb b\u00ebjn\u00eb, me respektin q\u00eb tregojn\u00eb, ndaj \u00e7do mysafiri, tavolin\u00eb m\u00eb tavolin\u00eb,\u00a0t\u00eb kalosh \u00e7astet m\u00eb miq\u00ebsore dhe m\u00eb t\u00eb g\u00ebzuar t\u00eb jet\u00ebs suaj.\u00a0 \u00a0 \u00a0\u00a0\u00a0 \u00c7ka pa dyshim do t’ju l\u00eb nj\u00eb kujtim t\u00eb \u00e7muar, p\u00ebr ju dhe t\u00eb gjith\u00eb mysafir\u00ebt e k\u00ebsaj das\u00ebme. Guzhina dhe menuja jan\u00eb t\u00eb zgjedhura sipas tradit\u00ebs, ku nuk mungon\u00a0mishi i pjekur n\u00eb hell, mezeja e bollshme dhe rakija e b\u00ebr\u00eb vet\u00eb. K\u00ebng\u00eb e valle popullore t\u00eb k\u00ebsaj treve, ku dallohen k\u00ebng\u00ebt\u00a0kushtuar heronj\u00ebve dhe ato t\u00eb kreshnik\u00ebve t\u00eb k\u00ebtyre an\u00ebve, ose\u00a0ngjarjeve t\u00eb r\u00ebnd\u00ebsishme komb\u00ebtare, t\u00eb gjitha s\u00eb bashku\u00a0plot\u00ebsojn\u00eb ambjentin e haresh\u00ebm, gazmor e festues t\u00eb k\u00ebsaj feste martesore, das\u00ebmen mbresal\u00ebnse. \u00a0 \u00a0 \u00a0\u00a0\u00a0 Mir\u00ebpo, ngaq\u00eb \u00e7do das\u00ebm shqiptare, sidomos k\u00ebto q\u00eb b\u00ebhen k\u00ebtu\u00a0n\u00eb diaspor\u00eb, ka edhe t\u00eb ve\u00e7ant\u00ebn e saj – e vog\u00ebl apo e madhe qoft\u00eb ajo, nga Veriu, Shqip\u00ebria e Meseme\u00a0apo Jugu, jan\u00eb das\u00ebma tradicionale shqiptare, q\u00eb t\u00eb k\u00ebnaqin zemr\u00ebn.<\/div>\n
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\u00a0\u00a0 Kurse, Das\u00ebma e Dedevukajve, lidhet edhe m\u00eb at\u00eb t\u00eb tragjedis\u00eb s\u00eb 11 shtatorit 2001, ngjarje, e cila kjo tashm\u00eb, \u00ebsht\u00eb kthyer n\u00eb shpres\u00eb dhe frym\u00ebzim p\u00ebr brezat e tjer\u00eb, mbasi 11 Shtatori 2001, \u00ebsht\u00eb b\u00ebr\u00eb simbol i bashkimit, dinjitetit dhe krenaris\u00eb, s\u00eb \u00e7do qytetari n\u00eb SHBA.<\/div>\n
\u00a0\u00a0\u00a0Djali i Marash Kol\u00eb Mirit, Simon Dedevukaj – st\u00ebrnipi i kryetrimit Ded\u00ebGjoLulit, i cili udh\u00ebhoqi kryegritjet e para p\u00ebr pavar\u00ebsin\u00eb e Shqip\u00ebris\u00eb, \u00ebsht\u00eb nj\u00eb nga tre heronj\u00ebt shqiptar\u00eb q\u00eb vdiq\u00ebn m\u00eb 11 shtator 2001. <\/strong><\/div>\n
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\u00a0 Ai, vdiq n\u00eb mosh\u00ebn 26 vje\u00e7are, duke u b\u00ebr nj\u00eb prej viktimave t\u00eb sulmit terrorist,12 vjet m\u00eb par\u00eb, teksa po punonte n\u00eb katin e 95- t\u00eb, t\u00eb Kull\u00ebs veriore n\u00eb Q\u00ebndr\u00ebn Nd\u00ebrkomb\u00ebtare t\u00eb Treg\u00ebtis\u00eb , tragjedis\u00eb, ku humb\u00ebn jet\u00ebn afro 3 mij\u00eb njer\u00ebz t\u00eb pafajsh\u00ebm. N\u00eb nd\u00ebrkoh\u00eb, q\u00eb t\u00eb shtun\u00ebn familja Dedvukaj, n\u00eb New York, pas atij kumti – 12 vjet m\u00eb pas\u00eb, pati nj\u00eb g\u00ebzim t\u00eb madh – martoi me nj\u00eb das\u00ebm t\u00eb madhe, djalin e tyre – Kol\u00eb (Calin) Ded\u00ebvukajn . \u00a0 \u00a0 Vat\u00eb Marashi Dedvukaj, n\u00eb em\u00ebr t\u00eb bab\u00ebs s\u00eb dh\u00ebndrrit Marash Kol\u00eb Mirit Dedvukaj me v\u00ebll\u00ebz\u00ebr e familjen e gjer\u00eb\u00a0 iu drejtua mysafir\u00ebve t\u00eb shumt\u00eb, me nj\u00eb ftes\u00eb ku thuhej se, pjesmarrja e \u00e7do njerit prej tyre n\u00eb das\u00ebm\u00ebn e djalit t\u00eb tyre, u a shtonte atyre g\u00ebzimin familjar\u00eb, dhe ua rrit\u00ebte nder\u00ebn si thon\u00eb mal\u00ebsor\u00ebt. N\u00eb ftes\u00ebn e tyre, ata p\u00ebr k\u00ebt\u00eb das\u00ebm, thonin se :” Kemi nder dhe k\u00ebnaq\u00ebsin t\u00eb ve\u00e7ant\u00eb q\u00eb n\u00eb em\u00ebn t\u00eb Familjes s\u00eb Kol\u00eb Mirit, t’ju ftojm\u00eb t\u00eb merrni pjes\u00eb n\u00eb martes\u00ebn e djalit ton\u00eb Kol\u00eb(Calit), i cili me k\u00ebt\u00eb rast fillon jet\u00eb t\u00eb re bashk\u00ebshortore, me zonjush\u00ebn Valbona. E bija, e t\u00eb nderuemit Zef Marash Kol\u00ebs Sinishtaj(Mal\u00ebsi)” \u00a0 \u00a0\u00a0 Das\u00ebma e madhe e Dedvukajve, nisi simbas zakonit t\u00eb tyre fetar\u00eb, t\u00eb cilit \u00e7ifti i mrekulluesh\u00ebm i p\u00ebrket, atij Katolik ” Kunora dhe Mesha e Shejt\u00eb”, t\u00eb cilat, u celebruan n\u00eb mesdrek\u00eb, t\u00eb shtun\u00ebn m\u00eb 11 Maj 2013, n\u00eb or\u00ebn 2:00 – PM (pasdite) n\u00eb Kish\u00ebn Katolike Shqiptare “Zoja e Shkodr\u00ebs”, nga i p\u00ebrndershmi Dom Viktor Dedaj<\/div>\n
\u00a0\u00a0\u00a0 Nd\u00ebrsa ceremonia e das\u00ebm\u00ebs filloi n\u00eb or\u00ebn 7:00 PM (n\u00eb mbr\u00ebmje) n\u00eb lokalin e njohur p\u00ebr das\u00ebma e gazmende t\u00eb shqiptar\u00ebve n\u00eb k\u00ebt\u00eb qytet, \u00a0“Eastwood Manor” n\u00eb Eastchesters Bronx – New York, me nj\u00eb bekim t\u00eb ushqimit dhe lutjes fetare nga i p\u00ebrndershmi\u00a0Dom Nikolin Pergjini. Grupi muzikor me k\u00ebng\u00ebtar\u00ebt e njohur nga Mal\u00ebsia, Liria Dedvukaj dhe Lek Dedvukaj e b\u00ebn\u00eb edhe m\u00eb t\u00eb hareshme dhe m\u00eb t\u00eb g\u00ebzueshme k\u00ebt\u00eb das\u00ebm karateristike e Mal\u00ebsor\u00ebve n\u00eb Amerik\u00eb.<\/div>\n
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\u00a0\u00a0\u00a0\u00a0Beqir SINA, New York Mbi 800 veta n\u00eb das\u00ebm\u00ebn e Dedvukajt – st\u00ebrnipit t\u00eb kryetrimit DedGjoLulit \u00a0 \u00a0 \u00a0 NEW YORK CITY :\u00a0N\u00eb Detroit dhe New York, ku jetojn\u00eb edhe pjesa m\u00eb e madhe e komunitetit shqiptar\u00eb, atyre q\u00eb kan emigruar nga Mal\u00ebsia n\u00eb Amerik\u00eb, das\u00ebmat e mal\u00ebsorve b\u00ebhen madh\u00ebshtore.<\/p>\n","protected":false},"author":1,"featured_media":0,"comment_status":"open","ping_status":"open","sticky":false,"template":"","format":"standard","meta":{"footnotes":""},"categories":[12],"tags":[],"class_list":["post-2849","post","type-post","status-publish","format-standard","hentry","category-jete-komuniteti"],"_links":{"self":[{"href":"https:\/\/revistakuvendi.org\/index.php?rest_route=\/wp\/v2\/posts\/2849","targetHints":{"allow":["GET"]}}],"collection":[{"href":"https:\/\/revistakuvendi.org\/index.php?rest_route=\/wp\/v2\/posts"}],"about":[{"href":"https:\/\/revistakuvendi.org\/index.php?rest_route=\/wp\/v2\/types\/post"}],"author":[{"embeddable":true,"href":"https:\/\/revistakuvendi.org\/index.php?rest_route=\/wp\/v2\/users\/1"}],"replies":[{"embeddable":true,"href":"https:\/\/revistakuvendi.org\/index.php?rest_route=%2Fwp%2Fv2%2Fcomments&post=2849"}],"version-history":[{"count":1,"href":"https:\/\/revistakuvendi.org\/index.php?rest_route=\/wp\/v2\/posts\/2849\/revisions"}],"predecessor-version":[{"id":2854,"href":"https:\/\/revistakuvendi.org\/index.php?rest_route=\/wp\/v2\/posts\/2849\/revisions\/2854"}],"wp:attachment":[{"href":"https:\/\/revistakuvendi.org\/index.php?rest_route=%2Fwp%2Fv2%2Fmedia&parent=2849"}],"wp:term":[{"taxonomy":"category","embeddable":true,"href":"https:\/\/revistakuvendi.org\/index.php?rest_route=%2Fwp%2Fv2%2Fcategories&post=2849"},{"taxonomy":"post_tag","embeddable":true,"href":"https:\/\/revistakuvendi.org\/index.php?rest_route=%2Fwp%2Fv2%2Ftags&post=2849"}],"curies":[{"name":"wp","href":"https:\/\/api.w.org\/{rel}","templated":true}]}}